If you are ever lost, don't try and find yourself. You will end up finding someone you don't like or never wanted, to begin with. If you are looking for someone, don't. They will not benefit you, they will only add negativity to your life.
Patience. Being patient is important in this lifetime.
When you aren't looking for anything, someone, yourself, you will find exactly what you need(ed) to begin with. Life is funny that way. Just always remember, things come in due time.
When life seems hard, it's getting ready for the best thing you could possibly ask for.
Be patient.
Being lost is a good thing.