I Partied My Way Through This Semester, And My GPA & Mental Health Thanked Me For It

I Partied My Way Through This Semester, And My GPA & Mental Health Thanked Me For It

I am not sorry about it because my GPA isn't suffering, and neither is my mental health.
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This semester I spent too many mornings dead from a night out.

I spent too many mornings Facetiming my friends piecing together what exactly had happened the night before. I spent too many mornings savaging my purse making sure I had all my cards, ID, and lip gloss. I spent too many mornings not waking up in my own bed.

But looking back, I am totally OK with it.

If you made it through reading that you are probably thinking either: “What the hell is wrong with you?", “How irresponsible can you possibly be", or “Literally same, girl." Guess what? I don't care what your opinion might be. I had the time of my life this semester– and I'll have memories and crazy stories for a lifetime.

I am aware you don't need to go out to have fun. Yes, I did party a little in high school, but most my time was having fun without it. So, I do know what fun without partying is like.

However, I am in college and paying for my experience, and frankly, I want part of my experience to be going out on the weekends. I worked hard studying and working during the week, so going out is how I chose to reward myself most of the time.

Because of this semester's partying, I have pictures and videos with friends and strangers singing, dancing, and just acting ridiculous– which is more fun to look back on than the nights I would have spent in bed binge-watching TV and reading alone– I have a retirement lifestyle in my future (if I live that long) to do those things.

This semester I have genuinely been the happiest I have been the last few years.

I do contribute much of that to be because I spent most weekends being carefree and letting loose.

I'm social and love meeting new people, and going out allowed me to do just that. If you are being completely repulsed by this article, I am sure you are thinking then, “You can do that without going out, blah, blah, blah…" and you are right. And I have. But going out allowed me to meet even more people who were out having just as good of a time as I was.

If you made it through reading this, I didn't write this to brag about my partying– even though that's exactly what I did. I wrote this because it's perfectly okay and acceptable to go out– as much, or as little, as you want.

My GPA isn't suffering, and neither is my mental health.

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As we embark on the semester, we are put on the spot in order to share interesting details about ourselves. This article discloses possible fun facts to tell others!
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After experiencing my first week of classes, I have learned that every student needs a handy-dandy list of fun facts about themselves to tell other people. Many professors use the first couple of classes to learn about their students, so you may need to think about who you are and how you want to introduce yourself to your professor and classmates. We all have that one go-to interesting fact about ourselves, but sometimes you just have to mix it up!

1. My favorite hobby is...

What do you do in your free time? Personally, I love to stay active! I am a competitive Latin dancer and enjoy teaching and taking Zumba classes, going to the gym, and hiking.

2. I love...

Is there something, someone, or somewhere that you love? What makes your heart ache? What do you miss when it's gone? I can say that I love my friends because I feel my most confident when I'm surrounded by those who love and support me.

3. I look up to...

Is there someone you adore? Who mesmerizes you? Who do you wish to learn from? After watching "A Ballerina's Tale," I discovered Misty Copeland. In 2015 she became the first African American ballet dancer to become the Female Principal Dancer at American Ballet Theatre. Her passion, grace, and strength continuously motivate me to better myself as an athlete and an individual.

4. This art speaks to me because...

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5. A funny and/or embarrassing memory of me is...

When you make others laugh they want to spend time and make memories with you! Don't be afraid to embarrass yourself. You will come off as down to earth, easy-going, and loyal.

6. My siblings or lack thereof influenced me by...

I can go on and on about my brother, who is 10 years older than I. We have opposite personalities and despite the age gap, we're quite close.

7. My pet(s) are my life because...

Only sad people don't like hearing about furry creatures, even if your pets are slimy and slithering creatures all human beings enjoy hearing pet tales!

8. I'm afraid of...

Your personality can be revealed by your likes and dislikes, including the things that you fear. I am terrified of change and the unknown, hence, the future is an anxiety-inducing topic to discuss for me.

9. I am the way I am because...

What have you gone through in life that has shaped you into who you are today? Remember to be open minded and allow yourself to open up to your peers. You may be surprised by how others respond and/or what others have endured as well.

10. The most unusual item that can be found in your dorm...

This is a fun fact about yourself that can easily liven up an awkward conversation. Think about your quirks and differences! One item I have in my dorm is my teddy bear, Peter, whom I like to joke is my boyfriend.

11. My dream job is...

In college, "What's your major?" is a widespread question. Nonetheless, skip the boring statement of "I'm majoring in..." and go in depth on what your dream job is (hopefully your major factors in to this dream of yours).

12. My hidden talents are...

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14. Some activities on my bucket list are...


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17. This one time at my job...

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What do you appreciate in life? What brightens your day? What makes you fall in love? What does someone have to do to make you smile?

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While college may seem like the wildest time of everyone's life, not everyone drinks and not everyone wants to go out every weekend. With this in mind, there are so many other things to do with friends, even by yourself, that doesn't involve you sitting in your room at night.

1. Have a sleepover

Text your best friends, get plenty of snacks, and don't forget your robe or fuzzy socks! Order pizza and binge-watch your favorite TV show. Who doesn't love a good girl's night in?

2. Go to the movies

TBH, I'm the one percent of the population who still hasn't seen Endgame.

3. Go bowling/ice skating/escape room/something kinda active

With a group of friends, it can be a pretty cheap and fun Friday night.

4. Board game night

Board game marathons are the best. I'm pretty sure my friends only have Cards Against Humanity, but board games are definitely worth the investment.

5. Try that one place you've always wanted to go!

I cannot tell you the number of times I've said 'I want to go there' and still haven't been to said place. When you don't want to go out on a Friday night, hit up that one spot you've been DYING to go.

6. Have a dessert party with friends

Have your friends bring a dessert, or go out to a restaurant and split them! It's a great way to chat, catch up, and enjoy some sugar!

7. Make a fort

I haven't made a fort as a kid, but you can bet I'm gonna drag my roommates out of their rooms and do this next time I'm bored.

8. Cook or bake something new

Try out that new recipe (or a few) that you've just pinned on Pinterest.

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