If you watched the Netflix original, "Thirteen Reasons Why" you will remember a very relatable quote, "We live in a generation of stalkers." Truer words have not been spoken: we're stalkers whether we willingly admit it or not.

Social media can be overwhelming, especially now when we can see who views our stories, likes our pictures, and decides to follow our day-to-day life. In my opinion, social media has made all of us people-pleasers and sometimes, that can cost our peace of mind.

1. It is completely okay to have a private account.

It's fun to get a lot of likes on your pictures. Often, we don't think about who is liking them. Instead, we're focused on the number. When your account is not private, anyone can see your pictures and repost them. If a private account makes you feel more secure, make one. You never know who can be saving your pictures and posting them elsewhere.

2. Block. Block away.

We are stalkers, and we are people-pleasers. If you don't want to have a private account, but also don't want toxic people viewing your page, block them. More often than now, if you don't let someone follow your account, they will have their friend follow you for them. Why give them the satisfaction of still viewing your account? Block away.

3. You don't have to accept every friend request.

To feel secure and contempt on the internet, you should only have people you care about viewing what you post. Just because you went to high school with someone does not mean you are obligated to accept their friend request. It is YOUR page, and if they are so interested in your life, they can shoot you a text message.

4. Utilize the "thumbs up button".

Out of the blue, someone might reach out to you. Although they're probably a great person, you may not want to have a full blown conversation. After the small talk, just send them the "thumbs up" icon. They'll catch the hint that you aren't feeling chatty, but you aren't rude either.

5. Stop caring about your ratio.

One of the most egotistical things I've ever seen is when a person goes through and unfollows people that follow them just to "keep a good ratio". Yes, it is your social media account and you can follow and unfollow anyone you so chose; however, it's rude to just unfollow a bunch of people to look cooler to the public. (Newsflash: You don't have a fan base.)

6. Turn your notifications off.

How often would you be checking social media if you did not receive notifications? Probably not as frequently. Check your socials on your own time, not when you feel your phone vibrate in your pocket.

7. Stop worrying about your outfits.

"But...but, I already posted a picture in that outfit!" People are DYING, Kim! No one memorizes your wardrobe. If you post a picture in the same article of clothing, I highly doubt anyone will scroll down your feed to check. People wear clothes more than once. Instagram is no different.

8. Stop asking people to like your pictures.

You don't have to post "LMP" on your story whenever you post on social media. It is YOUR account. The opinions of other people do not matter. You should not keep a picture up based on how many likes you get. If you like it, post it.

9. Stop worrying about "post frequency."

It's your account, post whenever you want. You don't have to caption your pictures, "AHA, DOUBLE POST SRY !!" if you want to post twice a day, go ahead. Whether you post every day or bi-annually, that's up to you.

10. You don't have to comment on people's pictures to stay in their good graces.

Yes, this is a real thing. Too many people fear that their friends will get mad at them for not commenting. If one of these friends ask, "Why didn't you show love on my picture?" You don't have to respond. You are not obligated to like or comment on people's post. You can genuinely appreciate a post without having to like it or comment on it.

Social media can bring out the worst in us. With its rising popularity, it almost feels like social media is "the real world." Remember, you can delete it, turn your notifications off, whatever gives you peace of mind. Never forget, any account worth your name attached to it, belongs to you and no one else.