Dear "Those" Guys,

Why do you think it's okay to be a terrible person and only use girlfriends for what you want? Why do you think you can get away with your wrongdoing, but only to blame the other person? Do you think it's "cool" to be that guy?

You're the kind of person that ruins it for the good guys. You're the person that makes the girls put up a wall, bigger than what Trump wants to build, around their hearts and minds. You're the kind of person that makes the good guys work twice or three times as hard to break down these walls and get into the inner sanctuary of a girls mind and heart.

I don't understand why you constantly use women for what you want. Whether it is sex or to lead them on, it's a terrible move that will eventually come to light. Once she finally catches up to your manipulative thought process, I hope everything that you've done is broadcasted for all to see, to see how much of a terrible person you are and how you can't be trusted even with the simplest of emotions.

You think that your slick actions and quick thinking will be able to cover up all of your mistakes and slip ups, but the truth won't be hidden forever - the truth that you were using her, seeing someone else, or just playing the game.

But please don't use the phrase, "Don't hate the player, hate the game." We all know that YOU are the only one to blame and there is NO game that is being played. Emotions are not a game, and even if they were, they aren't meant to be tampered with.

Leading someone on, playing with their emotions, and using them for your pure enjoyment isn't cool, and it labels you as one of "those" guys. Your friends may think that it's a cool thing to be labeled as, but the real women of the world don't share the same views as they do.

Being one of those guys isn't a good thing. Word travels fast, and I mean at supersonic speeds. Once one of your side pieces finds out about all that you've been doing, soon all of your others will know the truth as well.

Just for the sake of everyone, quit acting like a sneaky high schooler. Man up, take responsibility, own your actions, and don't be one of "those" guys.

Sincerely,

One of the Good Guys