I know what all of my friends who are reading this are thinking as they click on this link and open up my article. Why are you writing an article like this? You don't know how it feels. You've been in a relationship forever. But here's the thing. I know what you deserve. I know what you'll find.
You deserve the world and more. You deserve a guy who looks at you the way you've always wanted to be looked at. You deserve someone who knows your favorite color and favorite TV show. You deserve a guy who notices the crinkle in your nose when you laugh. You deserve a guy who will love you when you first wake up in the morning looking like a hot mess and a guy who will love you after you spend an hour getting ready to go out. You deserve a guy who would do anything for you and in time he will come.
Please promise me you won't settle. Don't settle for a guy who could care less. Don't settle for a mediocre relationship. Don't waste your time with someone who makes you cry more than they make you smile. Don't stay with someone who doesn't deserve you just because you don't think you can do better. Because I promise you: you can do better. I know there's someone perfect out there for each and every one of us. I know sometimes you might feel hopeless and that you'll never find the one, but I promise, one day you will.
You deserve a guy who makes you the happiest girl in the world, but the truth is you, a man shouldn't be your only form of happiness. Enjoy the nights spent with your best friends laughing until you can't breathe. The days you're happy with yourself for reaching a tough goal. The moments you spend surrounded by loved ones smiling from ear to ear. Happiness is within yourself and you don't need a guy to find that.
Don't rush anything. Don't force anything. Enjoy each and every day and surround yourself with people who make you the happiest. Someday, when you're least expecting it Mr. Right is going to walk right into your life. It could be today. It could be tomorrow. It could be next year. No matter how long it takes, it will happen. And In that moment, you'll finally realize why nothing else has worked out this far, and it will be amazing.