I’m talking to you. The one who follows the crew to Moe’s, thankful that you have their app--which is doing a “Free Burrito” promotion--but you still have to question the extra guac choice. The one who hoards change, even if it may be “annoying” to carry. The one who takes the sober ride to the Union at night, so you can use points to buy food so you don’t have to spend your money ordering wings (even if you’ve been craving that Hang Glider combo from Wings Over all week). The one who checks their banking app every two seconds each week to watch the direct deposit hit.
First, allow me to just point out, I chose to say “least wealthy,” because “poor” just sounds sad. And, although it may not be fun or the most glamorous thing, being “monetarily challenged” isn’t the end of the world.
So what, you can’t order food or buy that iPhone 7? Life goes on. You spend within your means, maybe get a job (because who doesn’t look good in a dining hall uniform), and save as you can.
But, I’m also talking to you. The one who has applied to every scholarship, worked all summer and is currently balancing jobs on the side. The one who’s still concerned about even affording to stay at school.
You have nothing to be ashamed of.
You’re not in this position because you didn’t work hard enough, because your parents don’t care enough, or that life is unfair. You were dealt these cards. People say success is built from what you were given or who you know, but that’s only if you accept that to be true.
Use it as a motivation. As Emmet says in Legally Blonde the Musical, “have a little chip on your shoulder.” Take this as an opportunity to prove stereotypes wrong and overcome your obstacles. And, of course, this has to be great advice, it’s from Legally Blonde!
High school was easy for me. I lived at home, worked, was a part of a million clubs and sports, and never really concerned myself with finances. Paying for school, dues for organizations, and insurance now--it really hits you how hard it can be. It’s difficult seeing friends in nice cars being able to buy whatever they want. And, honestly, that’s amazing for them that they get to do that. But, not everyone is so lucky.
I often feel alone in the struggle, but I know there are so many like me. Don’t be afraid to ask for help, work as hard as you can everyday, and take every opportunity as a chance to make connections.
Save that spare change, it can add up to go a long way.