An Open Letter To Ice Cream

An Open Letter To Ice Cream

Because it's the coolest friend I have

Dearest Ice Cream,

I have a lot to say to you and I don't care if the world hears it. Everyone needs to know how amazing and wonderful you are. Not only are you an amazing food that deserves it's own pyramid, but you also know how to make people (especially me) feel better about their lives and themselves. I know I'm not the only one to ever taste your wonderful flavors and be transported to a better life! And I'm okay with this open relationship that we have going on here because I know that you have the ability to make tons of people in this world very happy. I know I really shouldn't be saying this, but I'm really glad that you can change yourself to make different types of flavors because sometimes there are days where I'm really feeling a different side of you. And the way you accommodate for that is amazing.

Not only are you an amazing and refreshingly delicious treat, but you are also amazing all year round! There are certain foods that are especially delicious during one part of the year but nope, not you. Sure people might make special trips to get you during the summer time or the spring when the weather starts getting better, but I can't tell you a single person who stops eating you just because it gets cold out (they might say that they don't want ice cream in the winter, but I think you and I know they are just liars).

Ice cream, you are just simply the best. Sure you might get warm and start to melt, and sure it might get on our hands and get us sticky but that is just the price to pay for a great night out to enjoy your wonderful presence. You don't only comfort us when we need a delicious dessert or a treat on a warm day, you also comfort us when we are sad or in need of some comfort food. I know that I have at least two containers of you in my freezer right now for those emergency nights where there is too much stress and I just want to cry. You are always there for me and it makes me feel instantly better (especially paired with that instant chocolate shell stuff that is an amazing addition to you).

So thank you, ice cream. Thank you for always being there for me when I needed you the most. Thank you for not judging me when I eat the entire container in a night and sneak it out to the dumpster so no one will see. Thank you for understanding the dumb reasons why I often go to you for help. Thank you for having the best flavors for all of the weird and totally understandable occasions where I need you. And most of all, thank you for being a friend.

I love you, ice cream.

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Little things remind me all the time.

For example, I'll be sitting in the lounge with the people on my floor, just talking about how everyone's days went. Someone will turn to someone else and ask something along the lines of, "When are we going to so-and-so's place tonight?" Sometimes it'll even be, "Are you ready to go to so-and-so's place now? Okay, we'll see you later, Taylor!"

It's little things like that, little things that remind me I don't have a "friend group." And it's been like that forever. I don't have the same people to keep me company 24 hours of the day, the same people to do absolutely everything with, and the same people to cling to like glue. I don't have a whole cast of characters to entertain me and care for me and support me. Sometimes, especially when it feels obvious to me, not having a "friend group" makes me feel like a waste of space. If I don't have more friends than I can count, what's the point in trying to make friends at all?

I can tell you that there is a point. As a matter of fact, just because I don't have a close-knit clique doesn't mean I don't have any friends. The friends I have come from all different walks of life, some are from my town back home and some are from across the country. I've known some of my friends for years, and others I've only known for a few months. It doesn't really matter where they come from, though. What matters is that the friends I have all entertain me, care for me, and support me. Just because I'm not in that "friend group" with all of them together doesn't mean that we can't be friends to each other.

Still, I hate avoiding sticking myself in a box, and I'm not afraid to seek out friendships. I've noticed that a lot of the people I see who consider themselves to be in a "friend group" don't really venture outside the pack very often. I've never had a pack to venture outside of, so I don't mind reaching out to new people whenever.

I'm not going to lie, when I hear people talking about all the fun they're going to have with their "friend group" over the weekend, part of me wishes I could be included in something like that. I do sometimes want to have the personality type that allows me to mesh perfectly into a clique. I couldn't tell you what it is about me, but there is some part of me that just happens to function better one-on-one with people.

I hated it all my life up until very recently, and that's because I've finally learned that not having a "friend group" is never going to be the same as not having friends.

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A Love Letter To My Air Fryer

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