An Open Letter To All My College Friends

An Open Letter To All My College Friends

We're the B's from 413, no one can replace us

Let me just start by saying thank you, I would never have gotten through this year without you all. Whether you are my best friend, significant other, or just another person I see every day, thank you-you made the difference.

Freshman year of college is never easy for anyone, but I would never have made it through without you guys. I know that if I never met some of you during the summer before our first semester I would never have made it through. Not only was I starting college, but I moved to a new place with all new people with no one coming from the same school as me. I felt as if I had nothing in common since so many people already knew each other and had their roommates picked out, and friend groups already determined. However, you guys were there for me and brought me in when I felt no one else would. In the crazy heat that we had that first week during FASTRAK, you guys were there for me and we even shared a dorm room with an AC even though we barely knew each other.

Once the semester started, everything clicked. We were a group to be reckoned with; we felt that no one could beat us and that we were invincible. Honestly, I felt like we had the perfect group. Even though we have our ups and downs, and individual issues, we are always there to pick each other up. I love you guys more than anything, you made college a fun experience where I wanted to wake up every day and be with you guys.

The only downfall was that I left, I transferred colleges after this semester. I don't see y'all every day, but you are still there for me like I do. When I transferred, I never thought that I could replace or even find another friend. First off, I didn't want to replace my old friends, but I knew I needed someone to talk to. Whoever thought that it would be a random girl I met an event the semester before and also my roommates? You guys became everything. Not only did my new friend have classes with me, but she happened to only live upstairs from me [we had the exact same room, but one floor up]. As time passed, we became best friends, for the most part, we did everything together. I love you, you made transferring easier for me and I appreciate everything you've done. Not only did you help me prepare for our class, but you sat down and helped me write papers, and aside from schoolwork would come to my dorm and take a nap with me when no one was around and we both wanted to watch TV. Thank you.

Finally, my roommates. I've officially had five roommates during my freshman year. To my ones from my first college, thank you for putting up with my nonsense and being there for me. However, the real roommate love came this semester. You girls are the best. We may not have always got along, but I love you guys. You are the real MVP. You guys were there for me and helped me through EVERYTHING; I can't ever repay you guys for anything. From our midnight Wal-Mart runs or stealing cups from the dining hall, or even our cleaning parties. What other room could make cleaning fun like us? No one. We are the B's from 413, and no one can ever replace us and the random twerking moments, or the everyday attempts at cooking. Even though we won't be dorming together next semester, I just need to thank you all and just tell you girls that I love you.

My freshman year has been one that will never be forgotten and it is all thanks to you guys. Whether you sat with me one day at lunch, or even just talked to me in class, you made the difference you made my college experience. I can never relive the late nights spent in the lounge at either college, where I got to know people more, or just sat there till the sun came out. My freshman year memories will never be forgotten. I will never forget my first nights, last summer, where every person sat in the kitchens all night because it was too hot to sleep and it was all so new that we couldn't even sleep. There aren't enough words to thank everyone, but I can try. Thank you all for a great year, I can't wait for many more. It's been real, "Ayyyyyyyyyyye" - my roommate.

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An Open Letter To The Friend Who Became My Sister

Love is thicker than blood.


There are friends. Then, there are best friends.

According to "Grey’s Anatomy’s" Meredith Grey and Cristina Yang, they're your person. The one who, “if I murdered someone, I’d call you to help me drag the corpse across the living room floor.” You’re so much more to me than any of those titles can express.

As I’ve matured throughout the years, I’ve come to the conclusion that good friends with good hearts serve an incredibly important purpose in our lives, going above and beyond what we give them credit and appreciation for.

The family we choose. You’re one of those.

The day we met, I knew that you were going to play an important role in my life. What I had no idea of was that you would join the cast of my life with a starring role.

First, I need to say thank you. Thank you for always coming to my locker to check in before class during high school. Thank you for letting me control the music on road trips. Thank you for sharing your family with me, and addressing my family as if you were born into it.

Thank you for patiently listening to the physical embodiment of a broken record when I complain about the same boy I’ve loved since senior year. Thank you for tagging along on every doctor’s appointment, grocery run, and trip to the post office, just because you know that I hate doing things alone.

Thank you for not thinking twice before dialing when I text you “please call me.” Thank you for never saying no to a coffee date. Thank you for never giving up on me. Thank you for being my better half.

We don't share the same genetic makeup, but after all the sleepovers, heart-to-heart conversations, shopping until our bank accounts cry, and swapping clothes so often that we don’t know what belongs to whom, how could I not consider you family? We have shared some my fondest memories together, and I wouldn’t want them to feature anyone but you.

You’ve been with me on my best days, and loved me on my worst. You know how to make me laugh when all I want to do is crawl into a hole and die.

Picturing sitting in my car with you in the passenger seat makes me long for summer, where we spend three months together doing all of our favorite things. You’ve seen me naked, done my makeup, and warned me before making a poor decision. Being away from you for extended periods of time makes me feel incomplete.

You are a piece of me that I am not quite whole without. You taught me that blood doesn’t make a family; love does.

You know me better than I know myself, which is both amazing and terrifying. You make me realize I’m enough for this world, and that means more to me than I know how to express in the limited words that make up the English language.

You remind me that I am more than my mistakes, and you keep me grounded when I spiral out of control. You’ve helped me carry my burdens along with your own, even when the universe comes down on you full force, way harder than you deserve.

You’re the one I come to for the truth if I think my new dress makes me look fat, and I know you’ll be honest. I trust you with my whole heart. You know the gory details about every boy I’ve ever crushed on, every professor who was an absolute jerk, and every fight I’ve had with my mom.

I wouldn’t make it in this life without someone who already understands and listens to every thought going through my head and each thing I seriously over think, even when you know, though you don’t say, it won’t matter in a week.

With all these affectionate things being said, don’t forget our fights. The few we’ve had were very real. We still don’t see eye to eye on some events of the past, but I never told my mom about it because there was no need to make her choose a side between me and her “second daughter.

We have learned to move forward, because the love we have for each other overwhelmingly outweighs any disagreement we’ve had, and always will.

Through all the tears and laughs, I don’t think that anything the world has to offer could seriously come between us. You go to a different school than me now, and college has rudely gotten in the way of our routine of spending every waking moment together.

Since we met, we’ve grown separately without growing apart. Neither of us are the same person we used to be all those years ago. Even so, we’ve pushed each other to our limits and you’ve given me the courage to keep going and do things that make me happy.

We lean on each other when it’s been a bad day and all we want to do is to snuggle and indulge in whichever show the other is currently watching unceasingly and unabashedly for comfort (it’s the little things). Having you as my co-pilot on this crazy ride called life has been frustrating, exciting, slightly concerning, absolutely insane, and something I don’t know how I would live without, and I don’t intend to find out.

I’ll conclude this letter with a quote from every basic, white girl’s favorite musical, “I don’t know if I’ve been changed for the better, but because I knew you, I have been changed for good.”

Love you forever,

Your sis

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Just Because Your Home Friends Are Far Away Doesn’t Mean You Can Ghost Them

Show them that you are thinking of them.


If you're anything like me, your home friends are some of the greatest friends you have ever had. They are the people who stuck with you, even after most of your friends from high school kicked you to the curb once they found new friends in college. So, when you go back to school, or if you are already back for second semester, make sure that you don't shut them out of your life. Here are some ways to make sure that you don't ghost your home friends.

1. Check up on them.

No matter how far they are, it's important that you stay in contact with them. Friends who have stuck with you for this long are lifelong friends. Obviously, you don't have to speak with them every day of the week, but make sure that you check in on them every once in a while. If they value your friendship just as much, they'll do the same.

2. Write them letters.

This may seem a bit old fashioned, but writing letters is always a way to keep in touch while tapping into your creative side. Many of my friends from home have written me letters throughout our friendship, whether it was for a special event or just because they felt like it. Either way, it made me feel extremely thankful to have them in my life and it ensured me that I was still a prominent part of my friends' lives.

3. Set up a date to hang out and catch up with them.

If they go to school in the state, setting up a time where you can spend the weekend together is a great idea. This way they can see what your life is like at your school or vice versa. Having this time with them is also a great way to catch up with each other face to face, rather than over text message. It'll be a nice mental getaway from the thought of school work, too!

4. Plan ahead if break is around the corner.

Spring break is usually around a week long, if not shorter. So, if you want to see your friends from home in the span of a week, make sure you plan at least a week in advance so that everyone can clear time in their schedule. Don't wait till last minute or you may have to wait until the end of the semester to see them.

5. FaceTime or call them.

Sometimes texting your friends that you haven't seen in a while just doesn't cut it. Hearing their voice or seeing their face heals the ache that forms in your chest from missing them. Make sure you are FaceTiming each other at a time where you both are free. You don't want a facetime or phone call to feel rushed, especially if you haven't seen your friend in a while.

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