It's OK To Not Know What You're Doing With Your Life

It's OK To Not Know What You're Doing With Your Life

Because your happiness is more important than being forced to know what you think you want to do with your future.

We come to a point in our lives where we are expected to know what we want to do for the rest of our lives. This point usually approaches in high school. When you have to start filling out scholarships, applying to college (or at least decide what you're going to do after high school), take prep courses, and so much more that you are being bombarded with. It can become pretty overwhelming — and this is only the beginning. This high expectation of students needing to know what they are going to do with their lives puts a lot of pressure on students, it gets pretty stressful, and honestly, it's somewhat unnecessary. Why? Because you're still young and have plenty of time to figure it all out.

I know that our teachers and families want the best for us, but it's hard to know what the best is when many of us don't even know what we want yet. Going into college with an undecided major is OK. Don't freak out. You still have plenty of time to figure it out. Get some core curriculum classes out of the way, and take a few classes that interest you and this will get you well on your way to figuring out what you want to do! We're at the point in our lives where we're figuring it all out. We're trying to realize what the best path is for our career, as well as trying to figure out what direction our personal lives are going (because it's constantly spinning in circles), try and balance those two with a legitimate social life and you've got a lot on your plate!

It's good to have a solid idea of what you want to do with your future, but you don't need to have it set in stone quite yet. I had what I've named a "quarter-life crisis" this past school year because I changed what I was doing with my life after undergrad; I thought my entire world was falling apart. I had this idea planted in my head since high school of what I was going to be doing with the rest of my life, and it had all of a sudden changed. I thought that since I had changed this, everybody I knew would be disappointed in me. I was afraid of the response I was going to get from my parents, my professors, and even my friends. You will be pleasantly surprised by how much support you will receive from the ones you love when you make a decision that you think is shattering your world. The more I talked about my decision, the better I felt about it. This made me realize that it was OK that I didn't know what I was doing, because with time, I would figure it out. When something like this comes up in your life, keep this in mind: do what makes you happy. The more I thought about this, the better I felt about the decision I made. Looking into the future, this was the decision that was going to make me happier.

You can change what you want to do with your life as many times as you want, as long as it keeps you happy. This is the most important. Because your happiness is more important than being forced to know what you think you want to do with your future.

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Let's Talk More About Lori Laughlin Facing Up To 20 Years In Prison When Brock Turner Got 6 Months

And he was released three months early for 'good behavior'... after sexually assaulting an unconscious girl behind a dumpster.


To start, Lori Laughlin messed up royally, and I don't condone her actions.

If you live under a rock and are unaware of what happened to the "Full House" star, here's the tea:

Lori Laughlin and husband Mossimo Giannulli — and like 50 other celebrity parents — were found guilty of conspiracy to commit fraud, and paid a $1 million bail on conspiracy to commit mail fraud, and honest services fraud. You don't need to know what these mean except that she paid $500,000 to get her two daughters, Bella and Olivia Jade Giannulli.

I know you're wondering why they did it — tbh I am too — however, these parents paid the University of Southern California to give admission to her daughters in through the rowing team on campus, despite neither one of them actually playing the sport ever in their life.

Yeah, Aunt Becky messed up and should face punishment, but why is she facing up 20 years when men like Brock Turner are sentenced only six months for raping an unconscious woman behind a dumpster at Stanford?

I hate to bring up the gender card, but I'm pulling it: Why is Lori Laughlin — a woman who with bad judgement who used money to give an upper-hand to her entitled daughters — face more prison time than a man who willingly raped a woman who wasn't in a right state of mine (or any at all!) behind a dumpster of all places.

The answer? Because the system is a mess.

Yeah, Aunt Becky paid for her daughters to get into a school, giving disadvantages to students actually deserving and wanting to attend a college. Her act was immoral, and ultimately selfish, but it doesn't even compare to what Brock Turner did, and it doesn't even effect others as much his rape survivor.

The most that will happen to the Giannulli girls is an expulsion and a temporary poor reputation, however, Emily Doe (the alias of the survivor) will feel the consequences of the attack forever.

There should have been a switch:

Lori Laughlin and the Target guy should have had to pay other students tuition/student debt while facing prison time, while Brock Turner should have had to face over 20 years with more consequences.

But, that'll never happen because our system sucks and society is rigged. I guess our society would prefer a rapist walking around more so a woman who made a poor choice by paying for her daughters to go to a college.

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Teaching Is An Amazing Career, It's More Powerful Than We Give It Credit For

Teaching is a career that is heavily overlooked — it is much more powerful than people realize.


When it comes to teaching, it's not always easy or fun. But, let me ask you this: what career really is easy or fun all the time? Being challenged can beneficial. Otherwise, you are just going through the same routine over and over. Teaching will definitely keep you on your toes because there's always something happening.

People seem to think teachers just lecture on information that they hope their students remember for the test. You know what? Those people are dead wrong. Teaching is more than that. Teaching means having the passion and drive to educate children. Teaching is turning something dull to something that students will find more interesting and enjoyable.

Teaching is also about providing tools and other resources for students in order for them to succeed, especially the ones who tend to struggle in school. Being able to give those tools to help them accomplish their goals is extremely rewarding. A teacher will work with a student who is behind on his/her reading skills to have him/her be right at the level he/she needs to be by the end of the school year. Not many jobs provide a reward quite like guiding a student, if not more, to success.

Although it focuses on academics, teaching is not just about that. Sure, being an effective teacher is key, but there are other aspects that are just as significant. As a teacher, you also have to connect with your students. Knowing your students on a personal level is so important. The connection can build respect that will, in turn, help them to succeed. Plus, students spend more time with you on a day-to-day basis than they do with their parents — isn't that frightening? So, you have to be able to support them and let them know them that you are there for them if they are having trouble.

Additionally, that connection you build with your students can last a lifetime. You can witness the growth of a student right in front of you. In fact, I am still very close with some of my teachers from elementary school. Many of them inspired me to become a teacher. Because of those great bonds I built, I had the opportunity to intern with some of my past teachers, which was a rewarding experience for everyone. Being able to develop such a connection with someone so different in age is something that is so powerful and that doesn't come with many other careers.

Teaching is so amazing. There are so many layers and beautiful aspects to it. Again, it can be difficult, but it's also a lot of fun. Not many people can say they have fun and laugh every day at work. I also truly believe that not many other people can say their careers provide as rewarding of a feeling as teaching does. To be able to make such a difference in someone's life is an incredible thing. Teaching is my passion. I know teaching will not be only gratifying but something that will bring me pure joy.

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