I never used to think much of the “New Year” or “New Year’s Resolutions.” But as I grow older, the idea resonates with me more and more. There is no better way to look back at the last 12 months and prepare for your future. To recognize what went right, and what went wrong. New Year's is significant and most definitely meaningful.

Just like any other year, 2017 flew by. This year brought happiness, excitement, sadness, and most of all, the best memories.

2017 has taught me that people are fleeting and that some people aren’t meant to stay in your life. You will never be able to chase after people who aren’t meant to stay in your life. And sometimes people’s true colors are brought out and you really see why they aren’t meant to stay. Be thankful for the part they played in your life, but let them go.

Let go of what’s not supposed to happen. I think that has been the greatest lesson of 2017. I’ve learned to be open to new experiences, but also not to hold on to the past. Live, learn, and let go. It’s hard to let go of things we think we want, but sometimes it’s the very thing we must do.

Take chances. And take a lot of them.

Even if it doesn’t work out, at least you can say that you tried. You can say you gave your all, put forth your best effort, and so what, it didn’t work out! There’s no shame or regret in that. Be blunt, open, and honest.

The best thing about 2017 has been all the people who have showed or remained my best friends. When you open yourself up to meeting new people, life surprises you. Being that I just started my first semester at college, so many people in my life are new, and I couldn’t be more grateful. Even though I may have just met some of these people, they were meant to be my best friends for life. Making new friends is never a bad thing! With each stage of our lives, we grow. We outgrow some friendships and new ones follow us in our new stage of life.

2017 has been good to me. It’s taught me to make the best of every situation, and always to be my authentic self. I couldn’t ask for more. With that said, going forward, I am thankful for everything that happened in 2017.