For the last year and a half I took on the role as a nanny. While moving on is bittersweet I couldn't help but to reflect on these 15 things that I honestly never realized I would learn while being a nanny. Those kids had such a major impact on my life that I will always love them and never forget them even when they won't remember me.
It's practically an internship for parenthood.
The only difference is that you go home without them.
You actually love them way more than you thought.
This love will probably never disappear.
You begin to catch yourself acting like your mother.
Especially when they don't listen
You feel the need to call your mom and apologize for everything you did in life to cause her stress.
"I am so sorry mom, I guess I deserve this."
You can't wait to get off.
However, when you get off you can't wait to go back the next day for more cuddles.
You get excited when you hear that you can actually punish them.
But of course you're a softie and wouldn't actually follow through.
When you get off and want to go home and be lazy- you actually can.
But you realize your mom never could and then you feel bad and find yourself in tears because she's the best mom ever and did so much for you.
Nap time is a beautiful time.
Take advantage of those sweet snores and catch up on some shows, chores, crafts, or whatever else you have been wanting or needing to do.
Park days with more than one child make you feel more anxiety than you could've prepared for.
Better yet, any public outing with more than one is something you'll find yourself dreading.
You embrace the sweet calm moments.
Take advantage and accept all the love you can get.
When there are multiple you tend to pick your favorite based on current behavior.
I wonder if my parents felt the same way.
I am against bribery, but I also used it for most things.
You want a treat? Go finish your homework and do your chores first.
I found out that I do in fact have a mean bone in my body.
Sometimes the only way they'll listen is if I raise my voice so that China can hear me.
When you're told you are the worst it does kind of suck.
But they're kids and they have to learn they.
When they give you the biggest hugs followed by how you're the greatest babysitter world and that they love you- you realize that everything else is 100% worth it.
That can make all of your anger fade away.
Nannying wasn't always easy, but it was by far the most rewarding experience. It wasn't just a job, it was an incredible opportunity filled with tons of laughter, hugs, movies, and love. I pray that if you are a current nanny that you take advantage of everything while you can. One day when you and your boss both move days apart you'll miss every single second of time spent together even those bad days.