Is Music A Good Addiction?

Is Music A Good Addiction?

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Are there such things as good addictions? If so, could music be one?

Friedrich Nietzsche, a German philosopher, once said "Without music, life would be a mistake."

Can you imagine your life without music? Driving in your car from a long day at work, not having a song that reminds you of the special times with your significant other or doing any nonmeaningful task without any motivation.

I’m sorry, but I cannot fathom the thought of life without music. Music is an addiction worth having and I personally wouldn't be around if music wasn't. Music is everything to me and without it I wouldn't be able to survive.

I’m a lover of all types of music, so I listen to it on a daily basis. From the time I wake up and the time I go to sleep at night. It’s the only thing from keeping anyone sane in this world in my opinion. It is like a drug in some way to me. I itch, scratch and pray for it whenever I just need an uplift or a helping hand to guide me through life’s endless labyrinth. I feel sick, dull and deep emptiness inside if I haven’t heard any music throughout the day. It feels like your mind, soul and body are on autopilot. But once I hear a melodic, a catchy beat and lyrics I can contemplate or relate to… I’m whole again and everything in the universe is in balance once again.

The infinite cycle of thoughts and intense feelings travel throughout my body and I catch good chills throughout my body.

Sure you can cope with your stress with various things such as exercising, drugs, or therapy, but there’s nothing more relaxing than putting on your favorite music and zoning out the negatives in your life. It comforts me just knowing that there is someone out there I can relate too and who is going through the same situation or worse. Music tends to make people realize that their not alone and that they’ll never be even if that feeling is there.

Music is a universal language. A blind person can understand and enjoy it, deaf people can compose it, and you don't need to have a specific upbringing to appreciate it. Music is timeless, without music they're be no way to express yourself. Life would be dull and monotonous. Would a life like that be worth living? In my opinion, no, and I must agree, music is unlike any other thing on Earth and it evolves constantly. Anyone can appreciate music, paintings and pictures don't speak to everyone, music, however, does. It has no specific color or politics to it, that’s why I love it so much.

I was reading an article called “Why Do Humans Value Music” and found this quote that summed up the importance of music. “Music is pleasurable and profound," says Professor Bennett. "Music, in its capacity to achieve a sense of deep significance by going beyond the meanings made available by words to meanings only sounds can bring into being, has always been a major source of, or an important accompaniment to, the quest for profound experience.”

So music in my opinion is a good addiction to have in your life.

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I'll admit from the first time we were introduced to April in Season 6, I didn't like her so much. I mean we hated the "Mercy Westers" in the first place, so how could we see the potential in the annoying, know-it-all resident that was trying to compete with our beloved Lexie Grey.

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We love her because her story was unlike the others and she had one of the best character developments on the show. She wasn't damaged like Meredith Grey or Alex Karev who have been on their journey to become all whole and healed, but she still had to fight hard to be taken seriously. Her story has so much potential for future development, but you've decided to throw it all away for "creative reasons."

I'm sorry, but there's nothing creative about doing the exact same thing you've done to all the other characters who have left the show. We've endured the loss of many beloved characters when you chose to write off George, Henry, Mark, and Lexie. We even took it when you did the unthinkable and wrote McDreamy out of the show - killing off one half of the leading couple. (WHO DOES THAT???)

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How could you not see that she was way more than Jackson's love interest?

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She's the youngest of her sisters who still think of her as the embarrassing little Ducky no matter how much she's grown.

This swan of a resident got fired for one mistake but came back fighting to prove she belongs. Not only did April Kepner belong there, but it was her talent, her kindness, her strength that made her Chief Resident. This simply wasn't enough for Dr. Bailey or her other residents so she fought harder.

She endured the pressure but always ended up being a joke to the others. When she was fired yet again, your girl came back a little shaken. She doubted herself, but how could she not when everyone was against her.

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