Going off to college can (and probably will) change a lot of things about you. Although it’s a great opportunity to take steps to better yourself, you don’t have to entirely redefine yourself in college. You shouldn’t feel pressure to leave everything about high school behind you, especially if you enjoyed those four years. I keep the most important part of my high school experience — my friends — close to my heart, and I hope it stays this way forever. No matter how many amazing new friends I gain, I’ll always work to keep in touch with my gang from high school. And here are a few reasons why:

Christmas, spring, and summer breaks are way more fun when your high school group is intact.

The plans and fun times basically write themselves, because it’s been ages since you’ve all been together. Christmas party? Yes. Spring break pool party? Also yes. Summer bonfires multiple times a week? Another yes. No matter the occasion, please, a big party ASAP.

No one knows you like they know you.

These people have had years (four, eight, twelve?) to get to know you. They know all of the good things about you that you probably don’t even notice yourself. They can read your emotions like a book. They know all of your quirks, and they aren’t even bothered by them. They know everything you’ve been through and all of the things that have made you you throughout the years.

There’s no time for small talk when you haven’t seen your best friends in months.

It’s more like everyone talking and laughing over each other to the point that you can hardly hear, because there is just SO much to catch up on. Sorry to everyone sitting around you at the restaurant. But also TELL ME EVERY SINGLE THING THAT YOU’VE DONE IN THE PAST FOUR MONTHS.

The nostalgia is strong with this one.

You have a nearly endless amount of experiences stored up in the memory banks with these people. You went through awkward stages, hard times, incredible fun, and graduation with these people by your side. You can think back fondly on all you did in the past together as you discuss the new adventures you’ve taken since you walked out of your alma mater.

You already have your places and your things to do.

You know, those places you always go and the things you always do together. You sometimes try new things, but it does make planning easier when all it takes is a text in group message for Red Robin, a bonfire, and a movie night.

You get to watch some of your favorite people grow and experience new things.

There’s nothing like watching the people you love be happy. By keeping in touch, you can continue to be there for your friends and also watch them succeed and thrive. After high school ends, so many new doors open up. Watching the people you care about all jump through a different door is just as much fun as walking through them together was.