Up until a year and a half ago, I never had the intention of ever joining a sorority. All I knew about them was what I saw in the movies, and to be completely honest, I wasn't too impressed. I didn't think I was the "sorority type" and went into college with the plan to just go through and see what happens. However, halfway through my freshman year, that plan changed. I decided that I would sign up for recruitment and give a sorority a chance.
Now, a year after going through recruitment, I can truly say that joining a sorority was the best decision I've ever made. It has changed my life in more ways that I can count, but here are just a few of those reasons.
1. You grow up and find out who you are.
Joining a sorority does something special to you. It helps you discover who you truly are and what you want in your life. College is a time of self-discovery and growth. Being surrounded by other motivated women is the perfect environment to grow and evolve.
2. You will go outside your comfort zone.
Going through recruitment and the new member process push you out of your comfort zone. Now at first this is a little scary, but I promise you, it will help you feel so much more comfortable in your own skin!
3. You're surrounded by women who will motivate you to be better.
Having over 100 sisters, all with different dreams and goals, it makes you want to achieve your own dreams. Plus, you always have sisters there to cheer you on and give you advice!
4. You will feel more confident in yourself.
Confidence has always been something that I've struggled with. But going through recruitment has shown me that I have worth and that there are people who will love me and value me.
5. You always have something to do.
The great thing about joining a sorority is that there is always something for you to do. Whether it's a social, grab-a-date or simply going to get ice cream, there's always a sister to have a good time with.
6. You can be yourself without worrying about being judged.
We all have moments when we feel self-conscience and as if we cannot be ourselves. I don't know about you but I have always longed for friends who I could truly be myself around. Your sisters are the perfect people for that! You can act silly and weird and laugh until you cry!
7. You meet friends who will last a lifetime.
Becoming sisters is an instant connection to someone. These are the girls who will be there for you through all the ups and downs of life, who will be your bridesmaids, who will have your back no matter what.
I encourage everyone to at least be open-minded about sororities. There is much more than meets the eye. Maybe it can change your life the way it changed mine.