10 Things My Mom Did That I Never Realized Were So Important

10 Things My Mom Did That I Never Realized Were So Important

Like buying the expensive razors.

Your mom...also known as your best friend if you're lucky. And I am. I am so incredibly lucky to have that woman in my life and I would not have survived without her (cliche, but true). She is everything I need and more and I wouldn't want to call anyone else at least twice a day (I'm dead serious) to talk.

And its amazing I made it this far into my college career without realizing some of these, but here are the things my mom did for me that I never realized were so important.

1. Making me peanut butter and jelly every single day

She never failed to make my lunch for me and if I forgot it, she would drop it off at school. And every single day, there was the peanut butter and jelly sandwich. Its a classic, I know. But it feels like home. And now when I have to make it on my own for my lunch, I think of her.

2. Buying the expensive razors

Because it makes a difference. I tried buying one of those packs of razors for cheap, since I am a broke college student and all, and it went awfully. I had cuts all over my legs and threw them all away shortly after that. Since then, I've bought the nice razors my mom suggested and its been grand.

3. Washing my bed sheets

I guess washing my bed sheets is not something I thought I would really ever have to do. And then I came to college and realized that it is. That woman used to switch my sheets to flannel in the winter for the best cuddly bed, and I'm stuck with just one set of sheets that if I don't finish washing during the day, I'll be sleeping on my mattress only at night.

4. Setting up doctors appointments

I've been to the doctors more times than I can count this semester for a number of things, but the hardest part is setting up the appointments and figuring out the payment and my insurance plan. Before this, she handled it all and even scheduled appointments for the future. I was supposed to go back last week but that didn't happen...

5. Knowing how to cook a potato in the microwave

I hadn't ever cooked a potato before, but I've really tried to cook a lot of my own meals this semester and figured it was easy enough. Little did I know, you can put one in the microwave and it tastes pretty darn good. Thanks mom, I've had a couple potatoes this semester.

6. Stocking up on everything

Before I leave for school we stock up on everything--school supplies, bathroom essentials, kitchen tools. She knows me so well that I haven't had to run out for soap, toilet paper, body wash, or face wash the entire year. She has saved me so much money and time, and the only thing I've had to pay for is new shampoo and conditioner. She is so great.

7. Making lists

She would make lists of all the stuff I needed to get done to meet college deadlines, or what vaccines I needed for school. And now I'm stuck here trying to do it all by myself and its hard.

8. Having extra headphones in her purse

How many times did I forget mine for long car rides? But here was Super Mom, pulling an extra pair out of her purse to make me happy. Or gum. Or hairbands. Or chapstick. Now, I forget one of those every day.

9. Organizing my jewelry

If I had a nickel for every time I tried to untangle my necklaces from each other, I'd be a millionaire. She always made sure my jewelry was in its respective place at home where no tangling or misplacing jewelry ever occurred. I need to organize again.

10. Knowing birthdays

Is it bad that I have to rely on Facebook now to know when someones birthday is? Or anniversary? She was always on top of it and would let me know so I could wish them a good day.

All of these little big things make me love and appreciate her so much more when I'm away. And of course the big things she does as well when I'm gone. She deserves the best Mother's Day because she is the best mother, and I wouldn't be the young woman I am today without her there the whole time.

Cover Image Credit: Maddi Burns

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8 Reasons Why My Dad Is the Most Important Man In My Life

Forever my number one guy.

Growing up, there's been one consistent man I can always count on, my father. In any aspect of my life, my dad has always been there, showing me unconditional love and respect every day. No matter what, I know that my dad will always be the most important man in my life for many reasons.

1. He has always been there.

Literally. From the day I was born until today, I have never not been able to count on my dad to be there for me, uplift me and be the best dad he can be.

2. He learned to adapt and suffer through girly trends to make me happy.

I'm sure when my dad was younger and pictured his future, he didn't think about the Barbie pretend pageants, dressing up as a princess, perfecting my pigtails and enduring other countless girly events. My dad never turned me down when I wanted to play a game, no matter what and was always willing to help me pick out cute outfits and do my hair before preschool.

3. He sends the cutest texts.

Random text messages since I have gotten my own cell phone have always come my way from my dad. Those randoms "I love you so much" and "I am so proud of you" never fail to make me smile, and I can always count on my dad for an adorable text message when I'm feeling down.

4. He taught me how to be brave.

When I needed to learn how to swim, he threw me in the pool. When I needed to learn how to ride a bike, he went alongside me and made sure I didn't fall too badly. When I needed to learn how to drive, he was there next to me, making sure I didn't crash.

5. He encourages me to best the best I can be.

My dad sees the best in me, no matter how much I fail. He's always there to support me and turn my failures into successes. He can sit on the phone with me for hours, talking future career stuff and listening to me lay out my future plans and goals. He wants the absolute best for me, and no is never an option, he is always willing to do whatever it takes to get me where I need to be.

6. He gets sentimental way too often, but it's cute.

Whether you're sitting down at the kitchen table, reminiscing about your childhood, or that one song comes on that your dad insists you will dance to together on your wedding day, your dad's emotions often come out in the cutest possible way, forever reminding you how loved you are.

7. He supports you, emotionally and financially.

Need to vent about a guy in your life that isn't treating you well? My dad is there. Need some extra cash to help fund spring break? He's there for that, too.

8. He shows me how I should be treated.

Yes, my dad treats me like a princess, and I don't expect every guy I meet to wait on me hand and foot, but I do expect respect, and that's exactly what my dad showed I deserve. From the way he loves, admires, and respects me, he shows me that there are guys out there who will one day come along and treat me like that. My dad always advises me to not put up with less than I deserve and assures me that the right guy will come along one day.

For these reasons and more, my dad will forever be my No. 1 man. I love you!

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Being Sick In College Is A Real Struggle

Being sick in college is definitely not as fun as having a sick day in middle school or high school.


Something that I have had to deal with multiple times these past two semesters is being sick while in school. It can be a real pain especially depending on what type of sickness it is. I have had tonsillitis, mono, and I'm pretty sure I also had the flu.

Being at school and away from home can make being sick worse because there is nobody to take of you such as your parents. Another thing is having to make the decision to get the rest that your body needs in order to feel better or staying on top of your assignments to avoid falling behind. My parents will always tell me to get a good night's sleep so my body can feel better the next day. However, sometimes I will feel more stress if my work isn't getting done and I feel like I'm falling behind and leaving things to get done in the last minute.

Currently, I am sick now and the past few days haven't been easy, but I still attended all my classes so I wouldn't miss any material or assignments that were given. I usually end up feeling the worst at night when trying to fall asleep, and by that time the doctors are not present at the student health center. Even though my health is important I usually don't like taking too much time out of my day to go to the health center to see a doctor. Some days I don't really have much free time before the evening.

I don't believe I have been over-exerting myself, but I don't want to just stay in my bed all day and sleep, even though that may be what is best for me. Most professors will be understanding if I email them and provide them a doctor's note as well, but I also just got back from a conference where I had to miss two days of classes next week.

I have been trying to keep hydrated so that way my body can fight the sickness. Also, I have been told if you stay hydrated you can flush the virus out of your body quicker.

Eating can also be a pain when you have a sore throat, for the past couple of days I have tried to have some soup in order to help. Most meals I would have to force myself to eat something of substance in order to give my body some type of energy in order to get through the day. It's also never fun not being able to breathe out of your nostrils. If it wasn't my nose being stuffed, then it would be constantly runny so there was no winning that battle.

Looking back, I probably should have done a bit more work over spring break in order to get ahead in the case that something like this would happen. I wanted my break to be exactly that, a break. After not being home for a few months I just wanted some time off to relax.

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