If you are not familiar with the terms introvert and extrovert, let's start there.

An introvert is described as somebody who generally feels drained and exhausted while being around people and actually recharges when spending time alone. While extroverts, on the other hand (as you would expect) are the opposite. They find spending time alone draining and exhausting, and recharge by being around people and crowds. By definition, most people find it relatively easy to label themselves as one or the other; or if you relate to both--you could call yourself an ambivert. I, for one, feel I as though I can easily label myself as introverted. Although, there are many misconceptions that come along with the label.

1. All introverts are shy

This might be the biggest stereotype. Introversion and shyness are two completely different concepts. Yes, I do not talk as much as the next person, but that is not because I am shy rather than I’d genuinely prefer not to converse with certain people or in certain situations. Those who I do enjoy talking to well know better than anyone that I am actually quite outgoing.

2. Introverts don’t like going out

Introverts enjoy and need time alone, yes, but that does not mean we do not also like going out. It might be hard to get ourselves out there, but once we’re there, we’re there to have fun. Whatever way we have fun; whether it is people watching, talking to a small group of people, etc. The difference is, there comes a point where we begin to feel drained and crave time alone.

3. Introverts are insecure or not confident

Sure, some of us might be, as well as some extroverts might be. Our insecurities or self-esteem has absolutely zero part in being an introvert or extrovert. Just because someone enjoys time alone does not mean they are insecure.

4. Introverts are lonely

Many people will use the word loner when describing an introvert. Say it with me: there is a difference between being lonely and being alone! You might see someone sitting on a bench reading a book, instead of on a field with his/her peers. Just because that person is alone, does not mean they are necessarily lonely, but perhaps, as an introvert, truly enjoys spending time alone.

5. Introverts are boring

People like to believe that if someone does not enjoy what you enjoy, they are boring. That isn’t the case in life. Everyone is different and finds enjoyment in different things. You aren’t boring if you don’t enjoy parties or being with big groups- as long as you enjoy what you do, you’ll never be bored.