Millennials: The Most Misunderstood Generation?

Millennials: The Most Misunderstood Generation?

Why The Millennial Generation Is The Most Misunderstood


Move over, Generation X. Millennials - or Gen Y, as some would have it - are the most misunderstood generation to date. Born between 1980 and the turn of the millenium (though the exact birth years are a matter of pedantic controversy), millennials have the reputation of sipping a latte at your local Starbucks while working remotely on the latest MacBook Pro.

However, this image is all part of a wider misunderstanding of the first generation raised as part of a changed world of advanced communication and leaps in technology. Millennials are flawed, sure. And yes, perhaps they should put their smartphones down a little more often. However, that doesn't mean all they're worried about is the latest beard style or "eco-friendly" vegan diet. Millennials are misunderstood; here are just a few reasons why.

Millennials May Not Retire. Ever.

Millennials are often accused of living for today and not thinking about tomorrow. But many people don't realize that the purchase of that latest smartphone may just be a soothing mechanism for a very uncomfortable truth: millennials may never be able to retire.

Baby Boomers and their retirements are a justifiable cause of jealousy. Many have bought a second home, most can live comfortably off their retirement packages. Millennials, on the other hand, experienced the worst recession in living memory and as a result have crippling debt and little savings. Those that do save have terrible company plans available to them. Millennials will be lucky to reap the rewards of their labor by age 67, if at all.

Do Millennials Believe in Love?

Tinder has exposed (or perhaps even encouraged and defined) a millennial's view on dating, marriage, and love. Millennials are seen to date casually and, to be honest, this point can't really be argued against. The truth is that this generation just doesn't put a ring on it as often as Baby Boomers.

But is the fact that Millennials don't seem to be tying the knot at the same rate a bad thing? Or does it just mean that marriage for the sake of it just isn't worth it. We've all seen examples of unhappy marriages slogging along for financial reasons or "for the children". Millennials don't seem to want to do that, with divorce rates being far lower compared to the supposedly more moral Baby Boomers.

Social Media Drives a Millennial's Self Esteem (and their Spending Habits)

Yes, millennials seem to be more in tune with what's important when it comes to making a lifelong commitment in the form of marriage. However, that doesn't mean they're always better than their elders. In fact, while Baby Boomers often don't even have an Instagram account, Millennials often use it as the guiding light for their own lives.

On the other hand, Millennials seem to know about it. According to a recent study, 63% claim they would be happy if social media disappeared tomorrow. 71% admit to having had a complete break from social media at some point in the recent past. This is all because of the gripping power social media has over its users. It not only often leads to depression and jealousy, many users even let it guide their financial decisions. Companies are even coming up with solutions to help the average millennial from inadvertently spending all of their savings based on trends set by the latest influencer.

So yes, while Millennials are victims to the modern infomercial by the latest Instagram influencer, it doesn't mean they don't know about it or aren't actively trying to fight against it. The backlash is real.

Don't Judge a Millennial by his Latte

Millennials are unfair victims of their circumstance. Yes, monstrosities such as reality TV and apps such as Snapchat don't do much to help a millennial's reputation, yet it's nevertheless true that Baby Boomers had it a little different. While that trendy haircut and upturned chinos may suggest an individual driven by appearances and the number of Likes rather than friends, harbored underneath is someone seriously worried about the future.

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To The Soon-To-Be College Freshman Who Think They'll Keep Their High School Friends, Know This

You will maybe talk to 10 people back from your high school while your in college.


I know what you are thinking "Of course I am going to still talk to all my high school friends once we graduate." "You just didn't keep up with your friends." "I am going to talk to them every day."

Of course, you may be the lucky ones that go on to the same college and university, but if you follow your best friend to college then have you ever thought to yourself. "Did I choose my school based on if my friend(s) would go to college together." Obviously, it could be coincidental that you end up in the same place, but my argument is more on the idea of having friends that go to the same college on your list of important things once you move away.

Now if you are still reading and still in denial with what I am saying then continue.

Since moving away from home I have broadened my horizons and met more people then I could ever have imagined. I have met people that if I have not kept an open mind to them I would not be friends with them now. You will most likely choose the same type of friends that you had in high school if you do not keep an open mind when finding friends in college.

You also do not want to be that person who refuses to make other friends besides their high school friends. I hate to break it to you, but your high school friends will find other friends beside you when they leave for college/university. This time in your life is supposed to be "a new chapter" if you do not branch out of your comfort zone then you will be stuck in a little bubble for the rest of your life.

Not only will your friends in your high school class be making friends, but you need to make friends that are in the same stage of life that you are also in. Still talking to high school aged friends will limit you from conversations due to distance, lack of relevance, and just not going through the same stuff as you.

Sounds daunting? I know.

I am not saying that you can not be friends still with your high school friends. From time to time I catch up with mine to see how the school is going for them, and how they are doing, but I am building and forming relationships with my friends at college because you have had to start up from ground zero, and will be forming a foundation until we graduate.

Even when you have broken it is nice to hang out with your high school friends and talk about the good old days. My point to you is to keep an open mind and to not get upset when high school friends have moved on and found their new friends from school just like you.

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How to Prepare an Enjoyable First RV Road Trip


You felt excited when you bought your recreational vehicle, and now the thrill is even bigger since you are finally going to embark on your very first road trip with it. This vacation is going to be different from everything you have done so far. As it is the case with all firsts, there is a fair chance to overlook some important details, so here is a list of all the things you should check and do prior to setting off on your big adventure.

Take it for a test drive

Surely you have already done this before the purchase, but you could definitely make use of a few more hours behind the wheel. Since this is your first RV, it takes some time to get used to switching lanes, or driving it uphill and downhill. You'll also never forget to secure the drawers if you see anything flying out of them during a sudden turn.

Check the weather

It almost goes without saying, but make sure you always look for the forecast for a longer period than the length of your trip. Experiencing a storm in the middle of your journey is going to make it memorable, though not in a good way. Also, bad weather increases chances of accidents.

Check the paperwork

In short, collect all the necessary documentation. You should have your credit cards, cash, ownership documents, a map (in addition to the GPS device), and emergency telephone numbers. Furthermore, you never know what can happen on the road, so it's highly recommendable you get some kind of insurance, such as Good Sam Extended Warranty Protection, since this type of mechanical breakdown insurance comes with quite a few benefits.

Make a plan

Even though exploring the great outdoors with an RV seems to be a personification of spontaneity, you still need to have some fixed points, especially if you have small kids on board. Campgrounds get booked sooner than you think, so you had better do that on time. They are very convenient because you can find the necessary RV hook ups there, as well as other facilities. Don't take this for granted, though – always ask for details about their electrical, water, and sewage hookups.
As for the Wi-Fi, don't always count on it. Some campsites can be so crowded that it's almost impossible to get a good connection.

Glorious food

Surely you have in mind what groceries and snacks you're going to bring, but is your fridge in order? Turn it on 12 hours before you set off to check it's working properly. In order to cook food, you'll need pots, pans and dishes, too.

Ways to have fun

To make the trip truly enjoyable, think of different ways to entertain yourselves both indoors and outdoors. Bring cards, board games, or tablets. Kids can do some projects or some coloring activities. To really make the most of your vacation, do some research on what is going on in the area you are traveling to. Perhaps there is a festival, a funfair, or some interesting landmarks to be visited. Camping and time in a campsite needn't be the only highlights of your trip.

Necessities and extras

We have already mentioned some documents, but here is what else should be checked off the list.

A Swiss army knife, flashlights and a complete first aid kit are a must. You should also bring some medications just in case, as well as an insect repellent (there probably won't be a pharmacy around the corner when you need one). Toiletries are on the list, too.

RVs are quite spacious, so you can definitely bring your bikes, sleeping bags, hiking boots, as well as pillows for ultimate comfort. You needn't pack lightly when it comes to clothes either, but bear in mind the weather forecast.

So, you can finally get a taste of adventure and satisfy your inner nomad! Prepare well, and you will fully enjoy the whole experience.

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