Midwesterners are known for being overly nice compared to the rest of the nation, whether it’s saying thank you, giving directions, engaging themselves in conversation, or just showing off a cheesy smile. The best part is that this is actually true according to researchers at the University of Cambridge. Using Facebook, surveys and other data they found that the Midwest is the most “friendly” and “conventional” region of the country.
I’m biased, but the Midwest truly is a great location, especially Wisconsin. I come from a smaller town, where everyone knows everyone and everyone’s business. It resulted in a very close community, some may even say too close.
Upon moving to Madison, I surely had my doubts about the people. I heard and have had first-hand experiences from those in larger cities. The fast-paced environment makes it hard to find charm or make true connections with people.
Man, was I in for a surprise once I moved here. Although Madison is home to over 250,000 people and houses the state Capitol, it hardly feels like we are all strangers to one another. Granted, it’s unlikely for someone to know every person here, but the run-ins I’ve had with residents here truly makes it feel like home.
My first experience here that took me by surprise was the buses. The bus system is something I am definitely not used to and gives Madison a bigger city feel. It is definitely scary at first, but after my second or third ride, I felt like a pro. Although I downloaded the app, the bus driver was helpful in telling me where the bus goes and when I needed to get off. As I’ve ridden the bus more and more throughout the year I’ve noticed they do this with many people who ask questions or seem confused. Even though the buses run on a tight schedule, the drivers are usually always courteous and are not afraid to go out of their way. Many passengers are also patient enough to wait for riders and often give up their seats for elderly residents.
The best part of the bus system though is the fact that people say thank you while getting off at their stop. And even though many drivers might hear it hundreds of times every day, I’m sure it never hurts to feel a tad more appreciated. A friend from New York once stated to me how she thought it was weird how we all said thank you to the drivers, it isn’t the “New York” way. Personally, I think I like the Madison way better though.
Another thing that makes me love this city, even more, is the bystanders on State Street at night. I once dropped my wallet while walking home from work one day and somebody behind me grabbed it, caught up to me, and said, “Ope, I think you dropped this.” That person could have grabbed my credit cards, money, and ID, but decided to not ruin my day and instead returned it.
One of my favorite stories of the outgoingness of Madison residents occurred when it was downpouring outside. I had just gotten a new red raincoat, and I was walking past an older couple on the street that was in their car. The woman on the passenger side gave me the largest smile. They then exited the car and came up to me to talk about how great my red raincoat was. She explained to me that she had a similar one when she was younger and made some great memories while wearing it.
There have been many other instances where I’ve noticed a general caring public, even on campus. From waiting for someone to hold the door for them, letting cars go into your lane so they won’t miss a turn to stopping to compliment someone on their outfit people exhibit their kindness. Even many of the homeless people who reside on State Street often spark up a conversation. Knowing that good-hearted people are walking on the sidewalks with me make me proud to be a resident of Madison.
Through others’ generosity, concern, and overall gratuity, I have learned what it truly means to be a badger and a resident of Madison, Wisconsin.