Remember When Life Was Simple And All We Had To Worry About Was Who We Were Going To Marry According To M.A.S.H.

Remember When Life Was Simple And All We Had To Worry About Was Who We Were Going To Marry According To M.A.S.H.

Life might have been way simpler then, and my only worry might have been what snack I want after school, but I wouldn't go back for anything.


I am a sentimental freak, and still have all sorts of things from grade school, junior high, and high school. I happened to come across a game of M.A.S.H. circa 2007. As I looked at that crumpled piece of paper with my supposed future, I laughed. What I wanted back then is so different than what I want now. I no longer want to be a fashion designer or date some boy from my fourth-grade class.

When I thought back to fourth grade and the simplicity of it- I couldn't help but think why did I want to grow up so fast? I laugh at that fourth-grade punk, now because the worst thing to happen to her was ending up with the wrong boy in M.A.S.H. She didn't have much to worry about other than what snack she was going to have when she got home before going outside until the street lights come on.

As I read through the specific game of M.A.S.H. I found, I couldn't help but laugh. All of the choices I put down, how long I let my friend draw the spiral and the results were simply hilarious. The job I ended up with was something I would never even think about doing now. My supposed future is a literal joke.

Nonetheless, this crumpled piece of paper reminded me of how lucky I am. That future on the paper has no comparison to my future off the paper. Life might have been much easier then, but if I ended up with all of the results from M.A.S.H. I probably wouldn't like life. Funny, right? A future I chose not something I want? Yep.

Life might have been way simpler then, and my only worry might have been what snack I want after school, but I wouldn't go back for anything. I may wish I was younger sometimes, but surprisingly I'm okay with walking through the trenches. Sure, life was easier back then. We didn't have to worry about much.

Despite how different life is now, it is what happens. Life changes and that is okay. The difficulties of life change, and we learn how to walk through it. The celebrations change, as well. We celebrate them in a different way, too. Life will never be the same. We no longer wait for the TV guide to get back to the channel we are waiting on. We no longer have the curfew of street lights turning on. It's okay, though.

The game of M.A.S.H. might be in the past, but we have so much ahead that is good and beautiful. The older we get, the harder life can get because we have more responsibilities. We have more to do and more to possibly stress over. We can still make right now a time we look back on and smile.

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To The Girl Who Isn't Graduating On Time, It Won't Feel Any Less Amazing When You Do

Graduating is something to be proud of no matter how long it takes you.


To the girl who isn't graduating college "on time,"

I promise, you will get there eventually, and you will walk across that graduation stage with the biggest smile on your face.

You may have a different journey than the people you grew up with, and that is OKAY. You may have some twists and turns along the way, a few too many major changes, a life change, you may have taken most of a semester off to try to figure your life out, and you're doing the best you can.

Your family and your friends don't think less of you or your accomplishments, they are proud of your determination to get your degree.

They are proud of the woman you are becoming. They don't think of you as a failure or as someone any less awesome than you are. You're getting your degree, you're making moves towards your dreams and the life that you have always wanted, so please stop beating yourself up while you see people graduating college on time and getting a job or buying a car.

Your time will come, you just keep doing what you need to do in order to get on that graduation stage.

Your path is set out for you, and you will get there with time but also with patience. The place you're at right now is where you are supposed to be. You are going to thrive and you are going to be the best version of you when you graduate and start looking for a company that you will be proud to work for. Don't look on social media and feel less than, because at least you're still working towards your degree that you are finally passionate about. You will be prepared. You will be ready once the time comes and you cross the stage, move away, and start your journey in whatever field you're going into.

Don't question yourself, and be confident in your abilities.

With love,

A girl who isn't graduating on time

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Everyone tells you to prepare for the best years of your life.

They tell you to prepare for all of the new challenges and new opportunities.

They say that you will meet your future people in college.

What they don't tell you is how much it will hurt.

Seeing old friends disappear because you are no longer home.

Watching your grades fall because the class is too difficult to pass.

Hearing and witnessing your family struggle and you aren't able to be with them.

Seeing all of the adventures that others are going on while you are stuck in your dorm room with the same stack of papers you have been trying to finish for three days now.

They don't tell you how difficult the transition will be.

They especially don't tell you how hard it is to live with someone.

The best of friends can live together and then grow to hate each other.

Complete strangers will move in and never speak.

You'll find friends that are simply just your "writing friend" or "band friend".

Many of the labels from high school can sometimes stick around.

If you're not out drinking or clubbing, then people think you don't have a life.

College is great, but don't think that it will be easy.

You have to make things easy in order for things to happen.

You can't just go around doing whatever and expect things to work out.

It takes time and it takes commitment to succeed in life, and in college.

The best way to deal with it all, find someone!

Find someone that you can get coffee with and watch sports with.

Find someone to eat dinner and lunch with.

Find someone to study religion and math before the next test.

Find someone!

Find your someone, a friend or someone special, to help you make it through everything that life throws at you.

If I had that someone I might have been better off my first year.


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