I Really Loved 'Love, Simon'

I Really Loved 'Love, Simon'

I encourage everyone to see it.

This will contain spoilers for the movie "Love, Simon." A disclaimer: I haven't read the book that the movie is based on, "Simon vs. the Homo Sapiens Agenda." Also, I just want it to be known that I loved this movie.

I did not expect to like the movie.

I only went to see it because my best friend (who is a gay) requested that we all go see it together because most of my friends are a part of the LGBT+ community. I was excited about the movie existing because it was a movie for the young LGBT+ community, but that didn't mean that I wanted to see it.

As a 19-year-old bisexual girl, I felt that I was a little too outside of the audience range to go see it. Watching the movie somewhat confirmed this; there were a lot of scenes that were just a little too over the top that made me cringe.

Five years ago, however, I might have found them cute or endearing. For me, "Jacques" and "Blue" were way too into each other way too fast. Like, saying you're in love with someone whose identity you don't actually know? A cute sentiment, but I don't buy it. Other members of the audience probably did, though.

Despite being dispersed with cringe, there were moments that were hilarious (being openly gay at "liberal university") and moments that were cute (when Simon came out to his friend Abby) and moments that made me cry (both times he talked to his parents about being gay).That doesn't mean I didn't have my problems with the movie. The trope where the gay guy's best friend falls in love with him is something that I never want to see in media again.

Speaking from personal experience, I found it unrealistic that Simon was the only gay person in his friend group. The instances of homophobia were a bit too overdone in my opinion. His friends were not understanding at all about the situation he was in.

But wait, I loved the movie! That means it also has many high points. The movie really emphasizes that being gay doesn't really make you different from other people. Because of that, I think it is more than a "coming out" movie. Simon's sexuality was central to the plot, but that's not all the movie was about.

In addition, it depicts a very real fear that many members of the LGBT+ community have of not controlling when you "come out of the closet," (though, as the movie asks, why is straight the default?). It was a very heavy topic that was handled very well. The acting was good. The ending of the movie was one of the most satisfying I've experienced. The downsides of the movie didn't stop me from enjoying it a lot, and I encourage everyone to see it.

Cover Image Credit: @lovesimonmovie

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In case you missed it, the Jonas Brothers are back together and, let me tell you, they're giving us some major jams. For those of us who were there when it all began back in 2007 with their first album, It's About Time, this has been one of the most important events of the year. But nothing, and I mean nothing can rival the excitement every twenty-something felt as the Jonas Brothers announced their Happiness Begins tour. I, for one, put my name in for ticket presale, have been following every single social media site related to the tour/group, and, of course, listening to the Jonas Brothers on repeat. And if you did manage to snag tickets, then you know that this is how your brain has been ever since they announced the tour.

1. Finding out that they're going on tour

2. Hopefully entering your name into the lottery to get presale tickets

3. Finding out that you actually get to buy presale tickets

4. Impatiently waiting for your presale tickets by listening to their songs on repeat

5. And remembering how obsessed you used to be (definitely still are) with them

6. Trying to coordinate the squad to go to the concert with you

7. Waiting in the Ticketmaster waiting room...

8. ...And feeling super frantic/frustrated because there are about 2000 people in line in front of you

9. Actually getting into the site to buy the tickets

10. Frantically trying to find seats you can actually pay for because, let's be real, you're twenty-something and poor

11. Managing to actually get the seats you want

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I Know I'm Late, But I'm Now Obsessed With David Dobrik

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After coming home from the end of my first year of college, instead of unpacking like my parents would've loved for me to do, I turned to YouTube. I've always watched YouTube but I was never one of those teens that watched it so avidly that I would want to go to Playlist Live or VidCon.

Throughout the year, I received many recommendations to watch David Dobrik. Like most people I know, the recommendation went through one ear and out the other. Was he really worth the hype? Well, if you take a look back at the title of this article, you know the answer to that question.

One day, I decided to subscribe to David Dobrik's YouTube channel because I knew that if I saw a video created by him pop up with the rest of subscriptions, one of these days I would end up clicking on a video. That is exactly what happened. I ended up watching maybe two or three videos in total, but I didn't really become a fan. It's not like I didn't enjoy the videos I watched- because I did. I just didn't keep up with them. It wasn't until I came home from school and decided to go all in that I truly hopped on the David Dobrik-bandwagon.

Now, I truly understand what everyone was talking about. Not only is he hilarious, but his vlogs are super short (four minutes and 20 seconds to be exact). In a competition, I'd probably be named the "World's Worst Watcher" of TV shows and movies because I'm so impatient that I skip through the bad or boring parts that I don't want to watch. Contrary to this statement, I can safely say that I have only skipped through a video once only because someone was about to puke. He and his friends are always on the go, which is much more fun to watch than someone just sitting in front of the camera explaining what they are about to do instead of footage of them in action.

Most of the YouTubers I watch create lifestyle videos, like makeup tutorials, clothing hauls, vlogs of college students, etc. David Dobrik's videos are completely different from any of the others that I subscribe to. All of his videos are vlogs that show him doing the most ridiculous, yet entertaining things, whether it be buying his best friends expensive cars, paying them $100 so he can shoot them with a paintball gun, or going on spontaneous trips to Las Vegas. There's not a single moment through any of his videos that don't leave me with a smile on my face.

It's not just that his videos are short and entertaining. It's also that he seems like the sweetest and most down-to-earth human being. He cares so much about his friends so much that the focus isn't entirely on him but on them, which is something that you don't see very often.

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