Little Sister,
You are growing up so stinking fast. It’s hard to believe. So often I still think of you as the little girl who always wanted to wear my clothes, play with my toys, and never leave my side. But that’s not really who you are anymore (although you still do take my clothes from time to time). You are not little anymore. You are becoming an adult. Sometimes it is hard for me to realize that because often I don’t even feel that I am becoming an adult. However, my inability to notice your maturity does not mean that it is not there. But as your big sister, I feel obligated to give you advice where I can. So here are a few lessons for you.
1. There's more to life than high school.
I know that high school can get really weird and hard, but don't worry. It'll be over so soon, and then you'll be able to move on to bigger and better things! You have so much in life to look forward to. Don't get stuck on the little things that you'll leave behind after graduation.
2. Do what you love.
I know that there is going to be a lot of pressure on you really soon to pick a college, a major, and a career. Nearly everyone you meet is going to try to offer you advice on what they think is best for you. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO LISTEN TO THEM. I can't stress that enough. Do what you love and what you think is best for you.
3. Have fun.
Don't get too caught up in the serious things in life. There is no point in worrying about things you can't control. God is going to take care of those things for you. All that you have to do is follow in the path He puts before you and enjoy it. Find peace in the fact that you don't have to control everything. Just have fun!
I know that growing up can be really hard, but you're actually doing a really great job of it. You're making mistakes, just like the rest of the world. But the good thing is, you are learning from all of your mistakes and not making the same ones over and over again. That's what growing up is all about.
I am so proud of you and everything you've been able to accomplish so far. I know that so many more good things are going to come into your life. I love watching you grow up and I can't wait to see where life takes you next.
You are, and always will be, my little sister. I'll always be there with an encouraging word and a welcoming hug.
Love,
Your Big Sister