Louis Tomlinson's 'Just Like You' Isn't A #FirstWorldProblem

Louis Tomlinson's 'Just Like You' Isn't A #FirstWorldProblem

People simply do not know how to handle his level of honesty.

It seems like whenever a celebrity acknowledges any problem that he or she has encountered in life, it is written off as a “First World Problem”, and people deride that person for expressing any pain or sign of humanity.

Such was the case following Louis Tomlinson’s release of the lyric video for his latest song, “Just Like You.” Kev Geoghegan and Paul Glynn from BBC Music remarked on Oct. 18 that Tomlinson “laments the trappings of fame and fortune”, concluding their review with the sardonic quip, “We hear you buddy. #firstworldproblems.”

“25 and it's all planned / Night out and it's 10 grand / Headlines that I can't stand.”

Since Tomlinson’s 2010 rise to fame in One Direction and subsequent pursuit as a solo artist in 2015, it was not an easy ride. Despite the evident benefits of being a globally-recognized, successful band — namely, “The cash and the cars, and the glory” — Tomlinson and the others are constantly fighting the media’s perception, spurred on by the teams that surround them.

Tomlinson remains on the receiving end of unflattering and highly exaggerated headlines that diminishes his work. In a society that would rightfully criticize the media for boiling down any female musician’s career to her relationships, a lack of acknowledgment persists when the script is flipped.

“No sleep and we party 'till morning / 'Cause nobody cares when you're boring.”

Sects of fans argue that the focus is not — and never was — on the music that Tomlinson produces. Rather than recognizing his songwriting capabilities and the significant meaning behind his lyrics, the “headlines” sensationalize and highlight the unremarkable people who surround him.

“Yeah, I feel the same as you do / Same stress, same shit to go through / I'm just like you if you only knew.”

It comes in waves.

The first is his supposed friendship with musician, James Arthur, who publicly insulted him in 2013. Their “reconciliation” last summer aligned remarkably well with Arthur’s promotion for his No. 1 single, “Say You Won't Let Go.” The next is his reconnection with Eleanor Calder, who spent 2011 to 2015 on his arm, before reuniting earlier in the year and becoming the center of his promo for his first official single, “Back To You.”

The more consistent, third wave that crashes at opportune moments is his connection to reported ex-fling Briana Jungwirth and son, Freddie Tomlinson, who became the center of his promo for his collaborative work with Steve Aoki on the song, “Just Hold On”, released in December 2016. What is the relevance of mentioning all of these forgettable people in relation to “Just Like You” being observed as Tomlinson bemoaning his undeniably privileged life?

He is still human.

“I'm just like you, even though my problems look nothing like yours do / Yeah, I get sad too, and when I'm down I need somebody to talk to.”

Given that the “headlines that I can’t stand” have largely followed these people for the last year, it can only be assumed that Tomlinson wishes the attention would be given to his actual work. Who could blame him? Promotional questions for his past songs have followed a predictable pattern: “Is the song about your girlfriend?” and “Did you write any songs about your son?”

More so, simply because you can afford to maintain a certain lifestyle, it does not mean that you would place that lifestyle above other things. It is well-known that Tomlinson lost his mother to cancer in December 2016. I would argue that can hardly be classified as a #firstworldproblem.

"Every heart breaks the same / Every tear leaves a stain / Can't I just be the same?"

Tomlinson is not trying to say that his life is as difficult as the average person’s because even in his lyrics, he acknowledges that his problems are a lot different. Even so, he still experiences heartbreak, pain and false perceptions that frustrate him, as they would frustrate us.

At the end of the day, “Just Like You” is a song that is incredibly human. If anything, Geoghegan and Glynn’s interpretation speaks to the current music being produced within the industry, and how most people do not know how to handle Tomlinson’s level of honesty.

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18 Times Kate Middleton Was Actually All Of Us In College, Beside The Princess Thing

Every girl has to go through her clueless college stage before she reaches Duchess status.

Kate Middleton is basically a household name by now, and how could this not be the case when she has the gorgeous hair, kind smile, and incredible fashion sense. With her constantly in the spotlight looking so put together, we sometimes forget that the Duchess was actually all of us in college!

Here are 18 times that Kate proved she was just like all of us.

1. Going all out in the name of school spirit

There is nothing like breaking out the war paint and screaming for your home team. Like Kate, we all love to get a little messy and make some memories with our friends.

2. Hanging out with the roomies

Some people may not get lucky in this area but for those who are best friends with their roommates, they understand the love. It's a dream come true for everyone who has always wanted to live with their best friends. It's like a sleepover that never ends.

3. Dressing up cute on the first day of school...

You got to make a good first impression on your way to school. Whether it's during your 7 A.M or 4 P.M., it's always best to dress to impress.

4. ...and wearing yoga pants for the rest of the year

And this goes all the way until the last week of school when you don't bother getting out of bed to wear pants at all.

5. Going grocery shopping and throwing in cookies, ice-cream, and every type of Pringles because your mom isn't there to say no

You'll probably regret that in a few months when the Freshman Fifteen kicks in.

6. Walking for miles from your car to your dorm carrying groceries

We can't park by the apartment for a solid five minutes to carry our groceries up to the kitchen or we will risk a ticket, but we can walk a few miles carrying food that gets heavier, and heavier, and heavier with every step.

7. Going out for a night on the town on a Friday night

Dancing, laughter, and fun? Everyone in college has been to a party or two. It's a classic part of the college experience. Sometimes you just need a distraction from all the essays and tests.

8. Being so late to class you threw on whatever your hands grabbed next

We've all been there. Our alarm doesn't go off, we press snooze a few too many times, or forget to even set an alarm and next thing you know we are running around the dorm room like Taz from Looney Toons. You throw on whatever, then run to class.

Unfortunately 9/10 times our outfits don't turn out. Although, Kate can certainly pull off this look, no matter how mismatched.

9. Pretending your walking to the same building as the cute boy you met so you have the excuse to keep talking to him

I am very guilty of doing this. Although I missed my class, at least I got to talk to the really cute boy who has class at 9:45 in the STEM building. It was worth it.

10. Sitting on the floor or standing because you're a poor college student who can't afford chairs or tables

Eating on the floor? Always. Being a college kid is tough and sometimes you have to sacrifice some things to obtain the others. Such as choosing chocolate milk and Halo Top over vegetables and hair conditioner.

Judging by Kate's beautiful locks, she chose the conditioner.

Probably the vegetables too.

We should just all follow her example.

11. Going on cute date with the boy you followed to class-turned-boyfriend

Now my short-lived romance may not have extended farther than us talking and walking to his class, but Kate and William obviously had a better ending. Nevertheless, college is the place to grow and date and possibly find the one.

12. Keeping your hair long and growing because you can't afford to get it cut

Don't trust your roommate. No matter how many times she begs you to let her cut it. Don't.

13. Turning 21 and getting dressed up and going out with your best friends

While this one probably doesn't apply to Kate, since you can drink at age 18 in most countries, all my people in the United States know the sweet freedom of turning 21. It's an iconic time in a students life and marks a huge milestone as well.

14. Passing out flyers for some type of movement or protest

Everyone wants to be a part of something bigger - which is why college is the time to stand up for what you believe in. May that be RedforEd, Planned Parenthood, anti-Abortion, Trump, the Wall, pizza bagels, it's all an exercise of the first amendment.

15. Ranting to your friends about the professor that just "doesn't understand you"

You know your thinking about that professor right now as you read this. And you know that that's your reaction whenever they give you a bad grade or say something you disagree with at the tiniest degree.

16. Getting glammed-up for those senior photos

Pick out your best outfit and make sure it's a good hair day because everyone will be viewing these photos forever... and in Kate's place that is more than true. Luckily she looks as gorgeous as ever. Does she ever have a bad hair day?

17. Walking out of your last class knowing you'll never have to write a single paper again

And purposefully not thinking about how you will be going into the real world in less than a few days.

18. When you've graduated and realized you have no idea what you're going to do with your life

Maybe a prince will be right around the corner to sweep you off your feet so you won't have to figure your life out.
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The Football World Loses One Of Its Finest Players

Bart Starr passed away and NFL players, coaches, and fans all mourn the loss of the Packer legend, but his life and career will live on in hearts of Packer nation forever.


Bart Starr passed away at the age of 85 in Birmingham, Alabama. The NFL lost a great player. The Green Bay Packers lost a hero. And, the world lost a true gentleman. Starr's legacy has surpassed his accomplishments on the gridiron. He inspired not only his peers but the generations that have come after him. He is — and always — will be remembered as a Hall of Famer, a champion, and a Packer.

Bart Starr was a Packers legend. Starr led Green Bay to six division titles and five world championships. As the quarterback of Vince Lombardi's offense, he kept the machine going and executed the plays like no other. His mastery of the position was a large part of the Packers success in the 1960s. Starr was also the perfect teammate for the perfect team. His leadership put him in command of the Packers. Starr's time in Green Bay will not be forgotten by former players, coaches, and the fans.

Bart Starr's resume is rivaled by few in NFL history. He played in 10 postseason games and won 9 of them. He led the Packers to victory in Super Bowls I and II and won the MVP award in both games. He was the MVP of the league in 1966 and was named to the NFL All-Decade Team of the 1960s. The Packers retired his number 15 and Starr has been inducted into the Packers and Pro Football Hall of Fame.

After his playing days, Starr would become the head coach of the Packers. He could not repeat the success he had on the field from the 1960s teams. His coaching years do not take away from his legacy as one of the all-time great Packers. Starr was inducted into the Pro Football Hall of Fame in 1977.

One of Starr's last visits to Lambeau field was on a cold November night in 2015. Starr and his wife attended a ceremony in which the Packers retired Brett Favre's jersey number. Starr was the perfect personification of what it meant to be a Packer. His most heroic moment came in the 1967 NFL Championship Game. The Ice Bowl came down to a third and goal in Lambeau Field's south endzone against the Dallas Cowboys. Starr came to the sidelines and bravely told Vince Lombardi that he can sneak it in for a game-winning touchdown. Lombardi then replied, "Run it, and let's get the hell out of here." Starr ran a quarterback sneak for the game-winner and the Packers were off to Super Bowl II. Without Starr, Green Bay would not have won a second straight Super Bowl. His leadership in big game moments will live with Packers fans for a lifetime.

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Starr leaves behind his wife Cherry, his son, and three granddaughters. Packers fans will have a tight grip on the memories Bart Starr and the 60s teams created. Starr left behind a template for being a Green Bay Packer. He also left a template for being a good man and a gentleman of the game of football. He was a competitor and a leader. Packer nation mourns for the loss of one of the finest human beings the game has seen.

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