My parents’ work brought us halfway across the world from New Jersey to Delhi. Growing up in India enriched my childhood as I was able to immerse myself into a culture which serves as my backbone.

I was constantly surrounded by family members and close friends who emphasized a sense of belonging. Being surrounded by loved ones made me realize the importance of relationships. They harnessed my values and shaped my moral compass. They were able to guide and provide a path where I was able to make mistakes and grow.

Moreover, being in Gurgaon (a small town in the outskirts of Delhi) allowed us to interact with new members of the community which in turn, strengthened new and old bonds. This was evident in Indian festivities. Whether it was someone’s wedding or Diwali, the entire community joined together to celebrate the great day.

As regards to Indian festivals, the aura of these celebrations is incomparable. They are vibrant, colorful, and effervescent. Almost every festival is etched into my memory where I can recollect the food that was served, the songs that were played, and the arts that were displayed.

The food is another integral component of the Indian culture. There are 29 states in India and each brings its own unique influence to the table. In the north, Punjabi dal (a gravy filled with a mix of lentils and spices) which serves as a tough competition with Rasam (a traditional Indian soup served with rice)in the South.

It is hard to choose between Vada Pav (The Bombay Burger), originated in the west coast, and Pani Puri (a hollow fried bread filled with mint water, beans, and spices) in the east. However, everyone integrates all these delicacies into their meal no matter which side of the country they reside in.

India is a diverse country, not only in terms of food, but also in culture. There is a total of 23 languages spoken across the country, excluding the various dialects within each language. Each state has its own cultural norms.

My mother was raised in Trichy and my father grew up in Delhi; both cities on the opposite sides of the country. I had the privilege of being exposed to two strikingly different cultures that celebrate different festivals, carry distinct traditions, and practice disparate rituals.

Being engulfed in a country filled with genuine individuals, spirited celebrations, diverse foods, and distinct beliefs, altered my definition of culture. Culture is not simply affiliated with one nation or a single city. Culture refers to one’s expression of life.