Let's be honest, we've all been in a situation where we're the shining star and the center of attention. While that is great and all, it also means that we've felt the awkward stare of our at-least-a-little-jealous peers. Personally, I've never felt as if I was good enough and when I was awarded anything prestigious, I was always made to feel as if it should have went to someone else.

Unfortunately, becoming the Salutatorian of my graduating class was no different. It was a close race with a photo-finish, but I won. Yet, for some reason, I'm expected to not bring it up around the one who lost. This only adds to the already low self-esteem. Finally, after careful consideration and some lengthy conversations with the people I love the most, I am truly proud of myself and I will shout it from the rooftops for the whole world to hear. I am sick of walking on eggshells in order to spare others' feeling only to dim my own light, and quite honestly, you should be too.

Don't stop for anyone.

You know you're great and can do great things, so why are you letting people tell you differently? If you truly work for and deserve what you have, then no one should be able to take that from you. You should surround yourself with those who not only listen to you brag about yourself, but also brag about you themselves. No matter what anyone says, keep working hard and getting those awards.

Stop getting in your own way.

Speaking for myself, and probably many others, I am my own worst critic. This is one of my biggest flaws, but I will no longer get in my own way. You don't have to feel like having low self-esteem is normal or natural, and you're allowed to praise yourself. Not every self compliment is conceited. In order for you to live in the most positive way possible, you must first know your worth and live up to it.

Live your life unapologetically.

Don't be sorry if you're the favorite child, or you got the promotion at work, or even if you win first place at your next race. The bottom line is: you worked hard for what you have, and you have every right to be proud of yourself. Yes, those other people worked hard too (and okay maybe they deserved it too,) but not everyone can't win everything. You don't have to feel sorry for those who fell short just because you superseded everyone's expectations of you. Never say sorry for striving for excellence.