What does it mean to live a life without the shades of gray?
The good is good.
And the bad is bad.
What is wrong with that?
More than you would think. If the good is good and the bad is bad and there is nothing in between that means the things that are more along the lines of OK are just as bad as the bad things. So, in essence, if it can’t automatically be labeled as good, I will probably perceive it as bad.
This thought pattern often lends itself well to negative emotions, sadness, anger, and depression.
You may ask…
If you know that you do this, why don’t you just stop?
I can just stop thinking in black in white as easily as you can stop your urges to go to the bathroom.
Thinking in black and white has been something that I have done since I can remember. It’s automatic. It’s not just something that I can change on a whim, although most of the time I really wish I could.
In my mind…
Black:
There is no space between
What should and shouldn’t hurt
My sadness may seem
Ridiculous but for what its worth
It’s not something I choose
Rather, the way I see
Bad is bad
To me
And
When it’s dark
It’s black I see
White:
There is no space between
What should and shouldn’t hurt
My random bursts of energy
May seem annoying
But for what it’s worth
It’s not something I choose
Rather, the way I see
Good is good
To me
And
When it’s light
It’s white I see
In my mind, I’m seeing things the way they are and I’m sorry that to you some of the things I view as catastrophic may be no big deal but you aren’t seeing the world through my eyes so how can you be the judge of the way that I feel?
So, please be patient with me and my views of the world. If I experienced things in all of the different shades that you do I wouldn’t have this problem but since I struggle to see the difference between not so good and bad I spend most of my life in what will look like a whirlwind of negative experience we will leave it at that.