To The Roommate Who Became My Best Friend

To The Roommate Who Became My Best Friend

Even though I was worried about how we were going to get along I hoped for the best and turns out I got someone better than the best.
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When I was randomly assigned your roommate I was apprehensive. College life is stressful, and moving into a new home with someone you don’t know can add to that stress. Even though I was worried about how we were going to get along, I hoped for the best. And turns out I got someone better than the best (I wish I would have known this while I was stress shopping at Ikea but oh well).

I didn’t expect to get along with someone I had never even met before but the first night we hung out I knew I had made a new friend. Through the good times and the bad, we grew closer. Now I know if I ever need to vent, get chicken wings or just have a laugh I can count on you. You’ve seen me at my actual worst and my best and you still want to call me your friend. For that I am grateful.

Now as this year comes to a close and I start packing up my stuff I’m genuinely upset we won’t be living together next year. Even though I know we’ll still hang out and stuff, it won’t be the same. I’m so thankful you were put in my life, even when I was dreading having to come back to school and live with someone I didn’t know. I'm thankful for all the new experiences we had together and our countless gossiping sessions. You push me every day to be better and believe in me when I think I’ll fail. You made this year such an incredible one and I know there are so many more to come.

Thank you for being the pepper to my salt and being just as equally quirky as me.

You rock, ILY.

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Platonic Relationships Are Just As Valid As Romantic Relationships

Your platonic friends deserve just as much love.
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When people think of "relationships," they often think of two people who are in love and are dating; and often the things that come with it like flowers, chocolates, and dinner dates.

Society likes to tell the world that their lives will not be worth living unless they are in a romantic relationship, and it makes young teenagers feel insecure because they don't have a significant other. This can be a harmful mindset to have because nobody should feel insecure about not having a significant other. However, everyone should feel grateful for platonic love.

There have been many articles all over the internet entitled things like "Can a man and a woman be just friends?" and in my humble and honest opinion, I think those are some of the dumbest articles ever to be written on the internet.

All I could think to myself was "of course a man and a woman can be just friends! Are these articles for real?" I just couldn't stomach what many of these articles were saying, because in many ways, being in a platonic relationship can be just as rewarding, if not more, as being in a romantic relationship.

The simple truth is, a guy and a girl can be friends; but since society pushes romantic relationships on everyone like it's nobody's business, many people, especially teenagers, dismiss platonic love as "nothing special," and feel bad whenever they don't have a romantic partner in their lives. It has made a negative impact on our society because of this, and this is the type of thought that desperately needs to be unlearned by all.

Having a romantic partner is not a bad thing by any means. I love seeing my friends in happy romantic relationships with people they love. It really does make me happy. What bugs me is how many people don't value platonic love in the same way, when it deserves just as much value as romantic love. I don't like seeing singles being bitter about seeing happy couples everywhere because they don't have a significant other of their own. What I'm trying to say is that whether you're in a romantic relationship or not, the relationships you have with your platonic friends are just as valid.

And if you don't have a significant other, that's perfectly okay. You are not any less valid just because you're not in a romantic relationship. Having platonic friends are just as valid, and your relationships with them are just as valid and should be valued. Whether someone is in a romantic relationship or not, everyone has platonic relationships, and they deserve just as much love and value as romantic ones.

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Yes, You're Still 100 Percent My Best Friend Even Though You Go To A Different College

I can always count on you.
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Dear You,

Our first year of college is closely coming to an end, and let me tell you, it has been different without you by my side. There's always things that I see go on around campus here and think to myself that I wish you were there to see it. It's crazy how we went from seeing each other every day to maybe once or twice every 3 months.

You have helped me through some of the lowest points in my life and I'll forever be grateful for that. I can truly count on you for anything. You know exactly how to cheer me up and how to make me laugh when I'm feeling down. You have made me want to be apart of this earth.

I miss our dates to the beach, going to the park and watching the sunset, grabbing snow-cones and so much more. However, I already know that once summer comes again, we will be able to experience all of those again. We have so many memories throughout our life together that I know I'll cherish forever. I can't thank you enough for the endless laughs and smiles. Thank you for blaring and enjoying the same music as much as I do. Thank you for letting our friendship still remain this strong even though we are 200 something miles apart.

You're the type of friend who I want in my life for eternity. I can't wait to have you by my side as one of my bridesmaids when I eventually get married. I know I will be telling my kids all about you in the future on how great of a friend you were to me and hopefully you'll be there to be apart of their lives as well. I already know wherever we end up in our future, I'll always have a piece of you in my heart with me at all times. I love you with all that I have and already am counting down the days until I see you next.

Love,

Your Best Friend (Lerx, Alex, Liz, Alexis)

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