A Letter To My Ex Best Friend
Start writing a post
Relationships

A Letter To My Ex Best Friend

"Remember me? We used to be best friends."

11
A Letter To My Ex Best Friend
WhatsApp

Hello. How are you? I feel like this is the point at which I should let you know the amount I miss you, however a portion of me knows you presumably couldn't care less. On the off chance that you did, we'd most likely still be companions… right? Regardless, I trust you consider me once in a while and miss me as well. It's been months since we last talked; who would've seen that coming? I know I certainly didn't. So much has happened since we last talked, and I've needed you to know it all. Isn't that bent? Despite the fact that we're no more drawn out companions, I need to let you know every one of the things I used to. Furthermore, it sucks since you're not that individual to me any longer.

You were the one individual I should have the capacity to rely on for anything. You used to be a telephone summon away—yet abruptly you quit replying. You should dependably pay special mind to me—yet then you were talking in the face of my good faith. We should be companions everlastingly—however the next thing I knew, we were becoming further and further separated.

In any case, I figure such is reality. Nothing is consistent and nobody owes you anything. Also, despite the fact that we're not companions any longer, I need to bless your heart. Much obliged to you for being my closest companion—and managing everything that accompanies that. Much obliged to you for the evenings we remained up until day break simply talking and chuckling. Much obliged to you for being straightforward and truly thinking about me. Much obliged to you for taking me for me, and failing to let other's judgments act as a burden. A debt of gratitude is in order for never sharing those humiliating pictures you took of me. Furthermore, thank you, thank you, thank you for being the closest companion I required amid that some portion of my life.

What's more, despite the fact that we are no more drawn out companions, I simply need you to realize that I would never loathe you. Believe me, I've attempted. It sounds dreadful, yet I thought it is less demanding to get over losing you on the off chance that I could despise you—yet I couldn't force myself to do it. I was harmed when you cleared out, yet I will never detest you. You were my closest companion. What's more, not withstanding how things wound up, therefore, I will dependably adore you.

Some of the time, despite everything I look through pictures of us and grin. I see screenshots of old discussions and giggle. Furthermore, at whatever point I see something that helps me to remember you or an inside joke, I quite often nearly send it to you. I don't think there will ever be a day when you don't enter my thoughts in any event once, however the bitterness and hurt are blurring, and I'm figuring out how to take a gander at you as a valued memory.

Everybody picks their ways in life, and I figure your way simply no longer entwined with mine. Be that as it may, I trust you're glad. Since I truly do wish you the best. I trust you've discovered another person to send every one of those strange images as well, to remain up on the telephone with on the evenings you can't rest, to binge watch Friends with, and to similarly whine and celebrate about every one of the things with.

Simply realize that I don't abhor you and that I'll generally adore you. Realize that I esteem the recollections we made and wouldn't exchange them for anything. I'll generally check your snaps and Facebook presence to ensure you're doing alright, in light of the fact that a few things will never show signs of change. What's more, realize that regardless of the possibility that I don't go up to you whenever I see you, I will dependably be appreciative to have called you my closest companion.

I wish you the best, and I hope you're new best friend is always there for you like I was.

The friend you left behind

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
houses under green sky
Photo by Alev Takil on Unsplash

Small towns certainly have their pros and cons. Many people who grow up in small towns find themselves counting the days until they get to escape their roots and plant new ones in bigger, "better" places. And that's fine. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't thought those same thoughts before too. We all have, but they say it's important to remember where you came from. When I think about where I come from, I can't help having an overwhelming feeling of gratitude for my roots. Being from a small town has taught me so many important lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

Keep Reading...Show less
​a woman sitting at a table having a coffee
nappy.co

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

87290
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less
a man and a woman sitting on the beach in front of the sunset

Whether you met your new love interest online, through mutual friends, or another way entirely, you'll definitely want to know what you're getting into. I mean, really, what's the point in entering a relationship with someone if you don't know whether or not you're compatible on a very basic level?

Consider these 21 questions to ask in the talking stage when getting to know that new guy or girl you just started talking to:

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

Challah vs. Easter Bread: A Delicious Dilemma

Is there really such a difference in Challah bread or Easter Bread?

53500
loaves of challah and easter bread stacked up aside each other, an abundance of food in baskets
StableDiffusion

Ever since I could remember, it was a treat to receive Easter Bread made by my grandmother. We would only have it once a year and the wait was excruciating. Now that my grandmother has gotten older, she has stopped baking a lot of her recipes that require a lot of hand usage--her traditional Italian baking means no machines. So for the past few years, I have missed enjoying my Easter Bread.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments