Dear 2016 Me,

How are you doing? I hope you’re doing well because I know you’re about to graduate high school and this should be one of the most exciting times of your life! Summer is finally here and that means nothing but hanging out with your friends all day at the beach or by the pool, what a life that was.

Now, I’m not some life expert but I feel that I, as the future you, should give you some tips on how to survive the next year. First of all, do things out of your comfort zone. Don’t let mom and dad dictate your every move (still respect their “rules” because you are living under their roof) because come the fall they won’t be there to tell you what you can and cannot do. Take a risk, do something you’ve never done, eat something you’ve never had, whatever it is, just do it.

Next, that boy you’re so hung up over right now, forget about him. He did you dirty and you know you don’t deserve that. People are going to tell you numerous times “he isn’t worth it” and “you’re better off without him” and even though it doesn’t seem true at the time, they’re right. I know it hurts now but in a few months he won’t mean anything to you, you’re going to forget about him and he’s going to forget about you but that’s just how life works. You’re going to be having too much fun even think about him anyways.

Which brings me to my next point, the boys you meet in college, don’t fall for their little games. Yeah sure, he’s the “frat star” that everyone loves and he’s got the charming smile but don’t give in. Stand up for yourself, say “no”, believe me it makes your life so much easier when you take a stand. Spare yourself the heartbreak and don’t get caught up with boys. Sure the fantasy of finding your soul mate in college is tempting but that doesn’t mean it will be the first guy you meet, enjoy yourself and don’t make boys your main focus.

In addition, don’t worry about the little things. I’m still working on that even now but don’t stress about that one bad grade or who you’re going to be getting dinner with later that night. While these are two completely unrelated topics they’re both small issues that really aren’t as big of a problem as you think they are. One bad grade won’t kill your GPA and so many people eat alone so you won’t be the only one worried about looking like a loner.

And finally, respect your friends and family. They are there to guide you in the right direction and always have your best interest in mind. Even though parents get annoying because you get used to the freedom of not having them around, they love you and just want to see you succeed. As for your friends, the ones at school and back home, make sure you have a good time with them. Go party on the weekends and do crazy stuff but also let them push you in the right direction and do the same for them. No matter where they are they always support you in what you do.

I guess that’s all I have for now but just know that even when everything seems to go wrong, keep your head up and keep pushing through, you’ve got this. Best of luck in the next year, make it great!

Love, Future You.

(P.S. I'm so proud of everything you've accomplished)