Hello beautiful!

Yes, I said beautiful, even if you don't feel that way. I know you don't feel like anyone notices you, but I do. You are trying your best to be perfect; you think if you can act like you have it all together, that boy is going to ask you to lunch or flirt with you but I can promise you that if he only notices you for your looks, he isn't the man for you.

There is a huge difference between a boy and a man. Let me explain.

A boy will invite you to his dorm and have a second motive, a man will invite you over and tell you his plans and ask you if you are okay with them.

A boy will tell you that you look beautiful only on the days you put a mountain of make-up on, a man will tell you that you an angel when you are in sweatpants and not an ounce of make-up on.

With this, I also much say that you can't change for a man or a boy.

If he says you need to lose/ gain weight, he isn't worth it.

If he says you need to change you friends or push your family away, he isn't worth it.

Guys are a weird group of people but honey, you are worth more than that.

Now I speak with the men.

A lady that only hangs out with you because you are handsome on the outside, isn't a lady at all, only a girl. You deserve a lady. A women who stays with you because you make her happy, you make her feel special, and a women who supports you even when you are unsure of yourself. A girl will drop you if you leave the football team or loose the athletics body but a real women will stay for your mind, heart and soul.

When it comes to dating, I am nowhere near an expert, but I know what it feels like to hurt because the signs were there and no one told me.

To the women, find a man, not a boy.

To the Men, find a lady, not a girl.

Respect yourself.