Dear Little Brother,

I can't believe it's already happening – you're going to college. I knew it was coming, but it's hard to look at you and not see the little boy you used to be, the one that was full of energy and always running around with friends. I still remember how excited I was when you were born. You were like a best friend made especially for me. I'm so happy that we've stayed friends all these years, despite uncountable fights and arguments.

I know you're excited to start your first year, and I'm excited for you; you're going to do amazing things and make all of us proud. Moving away from home and out of state is scary and thrilling and I'm so happy you get to experience it. It will teach you independence and force you to cook your own meals and keep your space clean. Having gone through this myself, I know how hard it can be but there's no better way to learn. But Mom and Dad are always only a phone call away, just like they have been for me. And, of course, I'll always be there if you need me, too.

Even if you don't need anything, call Mom and Dad. They're going to miss you more than you know. You're bigger than both of them now, but you're forever their little boy; they've seen you nearly everyday for 18 years and having you so far away is going to be a hard change for them. Make it a habit to call them when you're walking to or from class, or when you take a break from studying. They'll be grateful for it and you'll be happy you did.

Speaking of studying, make sure you remember that's what you're there for. You're going to have to put in some work, but it will be worth it. There are so many important and interesting things you're going to learn – pay attention to them and explore new subjects. You might discover a totally new interest and you want to keep an open mind.

I know you're going to college for an education, but it's just as important to have fun. This is an exciting new adventure, one you should enjoy to the fullest. Go exploring, meet new people, make new friends. Don't be afraid to try new things, just make sure you're being smart and safe.

You have a good head on your shoulders and a good heart; you're one of the best people I know and I'm so proud to call you my brother. You're going to have an amazing time at college and I know you'll do great. Don't forget to call, OK?

Love,

Your Big Sister