11 Things I Learned From Having Divorced Parents

11 Things I Learned From Having Divorced Parents

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As I was about halfway through writing another article, I spoke to both of my parents. Shortly after both conversations had ended, I realized what an odd series of experiences I've had following my parents' divorce. I would love to tell you the seven, almost eight years have been easy and civil, but I can't lie like that. Regardless, I have learned a lot from this series of interesting events.

1. Communication take work.

Communication takes work to do correctly, whether it's communicating with my parents myself, between my parents or helping my parents understand what my sisters and I want.

2. Things change fast.

One moment you're home and the next you're not. Things and plans move at a rapid pace, and you can't be upset about it; you have to roll with it.

3. Everyone makes mistakes.

My parents make mistakes, I know I've made my fair share and so do the professionals.

4. How to be an adult.

I really felt like I was forced to grow up pretty fast after the divorce. This isn't always a bad thing, though. It taught me how to grow up and be independent.

5. Speak up for yourself.

There is never a guarantee that you will get what you want, but at the very least you know you tried.

6. You are stronger than you think.

You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have left.

7. The definition of family.

There is no way to define it. At the end of the day, they are here for you and love you unconditionally.

8. You are still worthy of love.

I have legitimately had professionals question my sisters and I on our ability to find love in the future. Piece of advice, don't listen to them.

9. It takes time to heal.

That goes for everyone involved. Some people are going to take longer to heal, too.

10. Not everyone learns from their mistakes.

You would love to believe that people can mess up and grow from it. Sometimes people just don't see this on the first few tries...or 20.

11. The legal system is flawed.

I don't want to rant on this, but long story shorts no one really cares. Money gets you the furthest and it's a sad truth.

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37 Drake Lyrics From 'Scorpion' That Will Make Your Next Instagram Caption Go Double Platinum

Side A makes you want to be single, Side B make you want to be boo'd up.

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We all knew Scorpion was going to be the summer banger we wanted. However, Drake surprised us with two sides of an album and two sides of himself. Mixing rap and R&B; was genius on his part, so why not dedicate 37 of his lyrics to our Instagram captions?

1. "Don't tell me how knew it would be like this all along" — Emotionless

Definitely a "I'm too good" for you vibe.

2. "My mentions are jokes, but they never give me the facts" — Talk Up

This one's for my haters.

3. "I wanna thank God for workin' way harder than Satan" — Elevate

For when you're feeling blessed.

4. "I promise if I'm not dead then I'm dedicated" — March 14

In Drake's story about his son the world knows about now, we get a lyric of true love and dedication

5. "My Mount Rushmore is me with four different expressions" — Survival

6. "Pinky ring 'til I get a wedding ring" — Nonstop

7. "I gotta breathe in real deep when I catch an attitude" — 8 Out of 10

This first line of the song is about to be spread on the gram like a wildfire

8. "Heard all of the talkin', now it's quiet, now it's shush" — Mob Ties

9. "California girls sweeter than pieces of candy" — Sandra's Rose

This is gonna have every girl who has ever stayed in Cali all hot and heavy, watch it.

10. "I think you're changing your mind, starting to see it in your eyes" — Summer Games

Y'all know how these summer games go

11. "Look the new me is really still the real me" — In My Feelings

When you've got to profess that you've changed 200%

12. "Only beggin' that I do is me beggin' your pardon" — Is There More

13. "Shifted your focus, lens lookin' jaded" — Jaded

14. "Back and forth to Italy, my comment section killin' me" — Can't Take a Joke

Necessary for when you've got people hyping you up already

15. "People are only as tough as they phone allows them to be" — Peak

Y'all can't have this one, I'm stealing it

16. "Work all winter, shine all summer" — That's How You Feel

Put in the work so you can flex on 'em, summer 18

17. "Blue faces, I got blue diamonds, blue tint, yeah" — Blue Tint


18. "I stay busy workin' on me" — Elevate

19. "Ten of us, we movin' as one" — Talk Up

The perfect reason to get the largest group picture you've had on your gram

20. "October baby for irony sake, of course" — March 14

This statistically applies to 1/12 of y'all reading this, so take that as you will (we October babies are the best)

21. "She had an attitude in the summer but now she nice again" — Blue Tint

22. "I know you special girl 'cause I know too many" — In My Feelings


23. "Gotta hit the club like you hit them, hit them, hit them angles" — Nice for What

24. "She said 'Do you love me?' I tell her, 'Only partly,' I only love my ____ and my ____ I'm sorry" — God's Plan

If you haven't used this one yet, get to it

25. "But I'm blessed I just checked, hate me never met me in the flesh" — I'm Upset

26. "It's only good in my city because I said so" — 8 Out of 10

Follow this up with a location and shoutout your hometown

27. "My haters either on they way to work or they arrived" — Can't Take a Joke

28. "I always need a glass of wine by sundown" — Final Fantasy

Has Drake ever been more relatable?

29. "It's your f***in' birthday. Happy birthday" — Ratchet Happy Birthday

Let's go get kicked out of an Applebee's

30. "I move through London with the Eurostep" — Nonstop


31. "I stopped askin' myself and I started feelin' myself" — Survival

Mood all summer 18

32. "They keep tryna' get me for my soul" — I'm Upset

33. "I'm tryna see who's there on the other end of the shade" — Emotionless

34. "Only obligation is to tell it straight" — Elevate

35. "It don't matter to me what you say" — Don't Matter to Me


This line from the King of Pop (MJ) will give you chills. R.I.P.

36. "I'm the chosen one, flowers never pick themselves" — Sandra's Rose

37. "Say you'll never ever leave from beside me" — In My Feelings

Couple goals, amirite?

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1. Throughout the show, the FAB 5 are truly themselves. They portray that to the people they work with.

YAS!

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2. They all come from different backgrounds, alongside all the people they work with.

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So are we, hon!

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Food is love baby.

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GROUP HUG!!

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8. Everything always turned out beautifully. There isn't one episode where you didn't feel closure for both the make-over and yourself.

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