When we're young, we're all dying to grow up. To learn to drive, to go out on our own; to get all the freedoms we think come with adulthood. But since I've come to college, there have been quite a few times that have made me wish I was still a kid. While we can't exactly go back in time, there are a few things we could all learn from the little ones in our lives.
1. All problems can be solved with a snack and a good cry.
No, this isn't me telling you to eat your problems away (not that I'm condemning that valuable problem-solving technique.) To a kid, the world is endless, and their problems last about as long as their attention span. Sometimes we all need to learn to walk away from things to get a fresh idea and a new point of view. Worrying constantly about problems won't help you solve them, only confuse them more and weigh you down.
2. Nap time is a good time.
Never, ever, ever underestimate the benefits of a good nap. They will help you face the rest of your day, whether you're tackling homework or need some strength before a late party.
3. Don't give up.
On yourself, or anything else. I've never met anyone with more confidence than a headstrong five-year-old. They can accomplish anything and become whoever they want to be. You can still be an astronaut, or a firefighter, (or a power ranger, if that's what your heart desires), and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
4. Love yourself...
Little kids only know what they've been taught when it comes to hate, and they have yet to absorb the self-consciousness of the world, leaving them as little bundles of joy that think they're amazing. Let some off that innocent confidence rub off on you next time you're around a kid. They think you're pretty cool, so you should, too.
5. ...And everyone else.
When's the last time you saw a child hate someone before getting to know them, just because of what they perceive about that person? Think real hard. You probably can't think of one, can you? Take note of that. Don't judge a person based on anything other than their actions. Try and get to know them first. Approach all people with love, not prejudice.
6. Laugh every day.
Children have the amazing ability to find silliness and happiness everywhere. If they can't find any, then they create some themselves. If you learn to find some fun thing everywhere you go, you'll develop a more positive outlook on life.
7. Don't bother yourself with others' opinions.
Children are unendingly curious. They also don't immediately compare themselves with others and disparage themselves. I'm a firm believer that children are faster learners simply because they aren't so wrried about looking dumb that they feel that they can't ask questions, or try new things for fear of failure.
8. Forgive freely, forget quickly.
One of the many blessings children experience is the ability to forgive and forget. A full-blown tantrum could be completely forgotten in the next minute. Children don't hold grudges or hold things over people. In this new age of normalizing being petty, we could all take a lesson on taking the high road.
9. Only worry about the moment you're in.
Worrying about tomorrow can only serve to ruin the moment you're living. Kids are naturally worry-free. They see the excitement and opportunity of each moment and don't have time to stress about the future.
10. If you can't reach something, ask someone taller.
You'll encounter many problems in your life, and some of them you may not be able to tackle alone. Don't forget that you can ask for help, and don't be shy or embarrassed about it. We've all been there before.