Take The Leap

Take The Leap

It’s okay to decide you aren’t happy and make that change.

Making a plan for your life is never easy, and that’s putting it lightly. It’s hard, and it’s downright scary. Just yesterday it feels like you were in high school and you had so much time to figure out what you wanted to do with your life, who you wanted to be and where you wanted to go. How did we go from being so carefree to so panicked about the future?

Now you’re actually living your life, trying to make a plan for yourself and trying to map our how you want your future to be. It is one of the most confusing and stressful times of your life. When you graduate high school you think you have this solid plan and that nothing will change. You think you have your whole life figured out.

When I graduated, I had this great plan. Major in Marine Biology, move to a coastal town, get married a couple years out of college, and have kids before I turn 27. I can’t believe how much has changed. I’ve changed my major/career path about four times in less than two years, and I’m on the verge of changing it again. I don’t know where I want to move, I don’t know when I’m going to get married or have kids. I don’t know what my future looks like anymore.

But one of the most important things I’ve learned in this time is this: don’t be afraid to change your plan. The plan you made in high school is most likely not going to be the plan you have for yourself now, and the plan you have for yourself now is likely not going to be your plan in the future. And that’s okay.

It’s okay to change your plan. It’s okay to not 100% have your life set in stone. It’s okay to decide you aren’t happy and make that change. It’s okay.

I can’t imagine living the life I had planned for myself in high school. Changing my major for the first time terrified me, I was so sure I knew what I wanted to do. Was I really sure this wasn’t what I wanted anymore? Was I really sure I wanted to throw out this whole plan I had for myself and start from scratch?

To everyone who is going through the same thing - and I know there are a lot of you that are - take the leap. Do what makes you happy. Because 20 years from now when you look back on this time in your life, the last thing you want to wonder is “what if.” What if you made that change? What if you changed your major from what’s safe to what you’re passionate about? What if you transferred to the college of your dreams instead of staying put where you are? What if you took that leap?

Don’t just stay in your current career path or your current college or your current job just because it’s safe or because you’re afraid of change. Do what makes you happy. You only have one shot at this life, and there’s no use wasting it because you’re afraid to make that change.

Make the change, take the leap. Do what makes you happy, no matter what anyone else says. This is your life, don’t waste it by playing it safe.

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10 Things Someone Who Grew Up In A Private School Knows

The 10 things that every private school-goer knows all too well.


1. Uniforms

Plaid. The one thing that every private school-goer knows all too well. It was made into jumpers, skirts, shorts, scouts, hair ties, basically anything you could imagine, the school plaid was made into. You had many different options on what to wear on a normal day, but you always dreaded dress uniform day because of skirts and ballet flats. But it made waking up late for school a whole lot easier.

2. New people were a big deal

New people weren't a big thing. Maybe one or two a year to a grade, but after freshman year no one new really showed up, making the new kid a big deal.

3. You've been to school with most of your class since Kindergarten

Most of your graduating class has been together since Kindergarten, maybe even preschool, if your school has it. They've become part of your family, and you can honestly say you've grown up with your best friends.

4. You've had the same teachers over and over

Having the same teacher two or three years in a row isn't a real surprise. They know what you are capable of and push you to do your best.

5. Everyone knows everybody. Especially everyone's business.

Your graduating class doesn't exceed 150. You know everyone in your grade and most likely everyone in the high school. Because of this, gossip spreads like wildfire. So everyone knows what's going on 10 minutes after it happens.

6. Your hair color was a big deal

If it's not a natural hair color, then forget about it. No dyeing your hair hot pink or blue or you could expect a phone call to your parents saying you have to get rid of it ASAP.

7. Your school isn't like "Gossip Girl"

There is no eating off campus for lunch or casually using your cell phone in class. Teachers are more strict and you can't skip class or just walk right off of campus.

8. Sports are a big deal

Your school is the best of the best at most sports. The teams normally go to the state championships. The rest of the school that doesn't play sports attends the games to cheer on the teams.

9. Boys had to be clean-shaven, and hair had to be cut

If you came to school and your hair was not cut or your beard was not shaved, you were written up and made to go in the bathroom and shave or have the head of discipline cut your hair. Basically, if you know you're getting written up for hair, it's best just to check out and go get a hair cut.

10. Free dress days were like a fashion show

Wearing a school uniform every day can really drive you mad. That free dress day once a month is what you lived for. It was basically a fashion show for everyone, except for those upperclassmen who were over everything and just wore sweat pants.

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