Why you should be kind.

Kindness is Key

Something we can all work on a little bit.


Kindness. Everyone says it, but not everyone practices it. I have been struggling a lot with trying my best to be kind at all turns. I'm sure you are thinking... why are you struggling with being kind? Well, there are so many instances where you just cannot help yourself or your emotions and have to choose the best way to handle situations. Many times, if you are frustrated enough, kindness is NOT the result. If you are running late, and the person in front of you in line is taking too long, if you are trying to sleep but your roommate needs to get up for class and keeps you awake, when someone does something that is just overall inconvenient - it is easy to get annoyed and not treat people with the same kindness and respect that you would otherwise. Learning to control impulsive thoughts and actions, ease up a little bit, and treat people fairly and nicely is really important. And I feel like a lot of people could use some help in this area.

My senior year of high school, I got involved in an extremely toxic friend group. Constantly feeling left out, witnessing people talk badly about the same person who was sitting at our lunch table just a few minutes ago, constantly finding the worst in people they do not even know, making jokes of things that are not okay to make jokes about, being turned against because I was an inconvenient asset to the group... just a few things that I experienced. The fact of the matter is, there are a lot of groups like this in high school, and a lot of people like this in life. It got to the point where I was not liking the person I was becoming because acting in such a way felt so normalized - so okay - and, let me tell you; it absolutely is not. After a ton of self-reflecting and reevaluating (in the midst of many tears and drama), I finally felt like I was back on the right foot.

Saying "thank you" anytime anyone does anything for you goes a very long way even if it is a task as simple as holding the door open for you. Showing your appreciation for people is important, and when you are only given one brief encounter to make a good impression on a stranger, gestures like these are important.

Reminding your friends of how much you appreciate them is essential in keeping and maintaining a healthy friendship. If they are going through a rough day, giving them a call or going out of your way to go see them and show them that you are there can mean a lot. The friends that were there for me through my worst points are the ones I truly believe I am going to keep forever. Even if nothing is going on, necessarily, being sure to never make someone feel bad about themselves and working through issues in the right way - NOT ignoring, making fun, excluding - proves you are loyal.

Complementing someone each day is another easy way to make your heart feel good and maybe even make someone else's day. Being talkative and friendly to a cashier and offering to help someone carry something are examples of small, but not-so-small, gestures.

Finally, being patient. I feel like this is the one I forget the most. If something does not go your way, take a breath and choose how you want to react. If someone treats you like a doormat and walks all over you, this may be a different story. Knowing how to stand up for yourself is important. But, if it was an honest mistake or something out of their control, remembering to keep it cool can save yourself from tension and negativity. This is something I have learned and still continue to each day.

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Lil Dicky's 'Earth' Is The Most Influential Song Of 2019, Change My Mind

And the music video may be even better.


Lil Dicky is a known musician know for his songs 'Pillow Talking' and 'Freaky Friday' featuring Chris Brown. The songs are fun silly and are very catchy. Last week, Lil Dicky released a new song titled 'Earth' featuring about 30 plus artists including Ariana Grande, Justin Bieber, Brendon Urie, Zac Brown Band, and many others. This song is just as enjoyable as his other songs; however, this one carries an extremely important message.

In this song, Dicky brings awareness to the condition of the Earth along with the idea of world unity. Through the inclusion of several animal species, he shows how the earth doesn't just belong to us as human, but to the animals as well. Oftentimes, the human race can be extremely selfish and forget that we do share the planet with other species who are just as important as us.

In one of his last verses, Dicky mentions the way we are harming the earth through pollution and fighting wars. This part of the song becomes more serious to emphasize the importance of this topic. In the music video, the colorful visuals turn dark and gray which can bring to attending the dying planet.

In his effort to save the earth, Dicky calls for unity among all countries and continents. Saying how all past issues are in the past and we all need to come together since we live on the same planet. With all the political issues happening on a global scale, the earth and its health are often pushed to the end of the priority list. By adding this part to the song, Dicky brings awareness of that topic back to the top.

'Earth' by Lil Dicky is the most important song of 2019. Through his creative artistry and inclusion of over 30 artists, people will notice the message of this song and hopefully begin to make changes that will impact the earth in positive ways. If you haven't watched the music video or listened to the song please do.

Earth is the only planet we have; thus, we need to show how much we love it by actually taking action to care for it.

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You Know You're From Trumbull, CT When...

The best memories are made in this boring, little, Connecticut town.


1. The majority of places you will consider to eat at are in Fairfield or Westport... Colony, Shake Shack, Country Cow, Playa Bowls, BarTaco

2. But if you find yourself too lazy to get on 95 for food, Panchero's is the go-to... never Chipotle. If it is past midnight, the choice always comes down to the McDonalds in Monroe, where you are almost guaranteed to see a group of people you know, or Merritt Canteen.

3. Once you got your license, your Friday night plans consisted of picking up friends, driving up and down Main Street, and, somehow, always finding yourself at the THS parking lot seeing who's car is there because there is nothing better to do.

4. In the Fall, you couldn't wait for Friday so that after school you and half of your grade could walk to Plasko's Farm for ice cream and apple cider donuts... and hope you could get them before the owners would yell at you to leave. (This one only applies to Hillcrest Middle School kids, AKA the inferior middle school in town).

5. You couldn't wait to be a senior so you could officially lead the BLACK HOLE at football games... if you were even willing to go in the cold.

6. You looked forward to the annual Senior Scav, the last week of summer before your senior year where a list of tasks is passed down by the recently graduated class... the official kickoff to senior year.

7. You pass by Country Club Rd. and get flashbacks from the worst Cross Country practices ever. Driving up Daniels Farm Rd. in the Fall and Spring, you are conditioned to yell "hi" out the window to your friends at practice.

8. You knew someone who worked at Gene's gas station... and found yourself spending more time there on the weekends than you would like to admit.

9. You are convinced Melon-heads are real after frequenting Velvet St. to see the abandoned insane asylum with your friends, IF you didn't want to drive all the way up to Fairfield Hills in Newtown.

10. You have had/have been to at least one middle school birthday party at the Trumbull Marriott.

11. You know that the 25mph speed limit on Whitney Ave. is way too slow... and can't help but hit a little air going down the huge hill at the top.

12. The guy at Towne likely knows your name.

13. You never find yourself turning right out of THS... that side of town is irrelevant for those who do not live there.

14. You know to avoid the Merrit Parkway from 4:00-7:00pm at all costs.

15. You know more than you would like to about people you aren't even friends with... in a town so small, things get around very quick.

16. Going shopping really means going to Target, or any store in the mall, for the millionth time that week.

17. The marching band was the best in the state and you would see them practicing, literally, every time you drove by THS.

19. Depending on the side of town you lived, you spent a lot of time at Five Pennies Park or Indian Ledge Park.

20. You would say you couldn't wait to leave, but when you got to college, you find yourself excited to come back to your hometown so you can reminisce on old traditions and make new memories.

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