We have all been through hard times. We've all faced times when we've fallen before God asking where He is. If I have learned anything in rough times it would be that the struggle strengthens our faith. It allows us to grow our faith because we are seeking a greater reliance on God and His plan.
Psalm 46:1 tells us, "God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble." No matter what battle you are fighting, God is with you. He wants the best for your life. Our trials may not disappear, but it does mean that God will walk with you through each of them.
Romans 8:35-39 says, "Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword?As it is written: “For your sake, we face death all day long; we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered.” No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us.For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powersneither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord."
No matter how hard your situation is, you can experience God's love and grace, and nothing can separate you from that. You can have the attitude of a victor because Jesus already won the battle on your behalf.
2 Corinthians 12:9-10, "But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong."