@Everybody, It's Time To Throw Out Your Pacifier And Address Things As Adults

@Everybody, It's Time To Throw Out Your Pacifier And Address Things As Adults

Trigger warning: those offended easily, beware.

Alright, let’s all come walk onto this common ground and agree that everyone has turned into babies. Yes, babies. No one can take a joke, have a conversation, or even watch TV anymore without having a fit on how they are offended. Who knows, you might not even be able to read this because it will offend you too much.

People get offended so easily nowadays that you really can’t say anything unless you’re willing to put up with someone complaining about how “badly” you’ve offended them. Like OK, Linda, here’s your pacifier.

Let’s also get this whole “liberal vs. conservative” thing out of the way as well. Whether you want to admit it or not, they are both easily offended. Yes, I said it; doesn’t matter if you’re a liberal or a conservative, someone makes a comment and you begin to pout like there’s no tomorrow.

I don’t understand how we’ve become a society that gets offended over the smallest things. I could talk about a burger, I ate and a person across the room will get offended by it. I ate my burger, why should it bother you?

Rarely do you hear people talk out their differences or debate a subject with facts.

Yeah, I said facts — as in "not things you pull out of the place where the sun don’t shine and claim to be true."

If we teach new generations to begin to address differences rather than hide behind a screaming contest, maybe we could get somewhere. Oh, and yes, I said address differences. Now, I know what you’re thinking, “You want me to talk about uncomfortable subjects? To other people?” Uh, yes. Yes, I do actually.

If we talk about things, the uncomfortable becomes something we can work on to become more comfortable. As in we work on the issue rather than come at each other with torches.

Now go ahead, bash me in the comment section. Just make sure you don’t type so much that your fingers get sore and don’t forget your pacifier. (Was that too much? Are you bothered yet?)

Or you can always throw it out, act like an adult, and start to make a change instead of complaining about it. Crazy concept, I know. Though it would be nice to watch t.v. without someone getting offended by a joke or that they didn't have enough characters of a certain race. (*Pushes button*)

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I'm The Girl Who'd Rather Raise A Family Than A Feminist Protest Sign

You raise your protest picket signs and I’ll raise my white picket fence.

Social Media feeds are constantly filled with quotes on women's rights, protests with mobs of women, and an array of cleverly worded picket signs.

Good for them, standing up for their beliefs and opinions. Will I be joining my tight-knit family of the same gender?

Nope, no thank you.

Don't get me wrong, I am not going to be oblivious to my history and the advancements that women have fought to achieve. I am aware that the strides made by many women before me have provided us with voting rights, a voice, equality, and equal pay in the workforce.

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For that, I am deeply thankful. But at this day in age, I know more female managers in the workforce than male. I know more women in business than men. I know more female students in STEM programs than male students. So what’s with all the hype? We are girl bosses, we can run the world, we don’t need to fight the system anymore.

Please stop.

Because it is insulting to the rest of us girls who are okay with being homemakers, wives, or stay-at-home moms. It's dividing our sisterhood, and it needs to stop.

All these protests and strong statements make us feel like now we HAVE to obtain a power position in our career. It's our rightful duty to our sisters. And if we do not, we are a disappointment to the gender and it makes us look weak.

Weak to the point where I feel ashamed to say to a friend “I want to be a stay at home mom someday.” Then have them look at me like I must have been brain-washed by a man because that can be the only explanation. I'm tired of feeling belittled for being a traditionalist.


Because why should I feel bad for wanting to create a comfortable home for my future family, cooking for my husband, being a soccer mom, keeping my house tidy? Because honestly, I cannot wait.

I will have no problem taking my future husband’s last name, and following his lead.

The Bible appoints men to be the head of a family, and for wives to submit to their husbands. (This can be interpreted in so many ways, so don't get your panties in a bunch at the word “submit”). God specifically made women to be gentle and caring, and we should not be afraid to embrace that. God created men to be leaders with the strength to carry the weight of a family.

However, in no way does this mean that the roles cannot be flipped. If you want to take on the responsibility, by all means, you go girl. But for me personally? I'm sensitive, I cry during horror movies, I'm afraid of basements and dark rooms. I, in no way, am strong enough to take on the tasks that men have been appointed to. And I'm okay with that.

So please, let me look forward to baking cookies for bake sales and driving a mom car.

And I'll support you in your endeavors and climb to the top of the corporate ladder. It doesn't matter what side you are on as long as we support each other, because we all need some girl power.

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