Being single is not always what it's cracked up to be. You can feel lonely, be the butt to all of your taken friends' jokes, or get judged for the amount of takeout you order. One person could sit around all day conjuring up more reasons as to why being a loner is a less than satisfactory experience. Coming from someone who has been single for a good while, I know how tough it can be. However, there are just as many arguments in favor of the person who would rather be alone.

Whether you've been single for the past hour, the last few years, or somewhere in between, there's nothing wrong with it. You may be feeling disheartened or upset, but it will pass. Contrary to popular belief, there is a bright side.

You have more time for yourself. One of the best things you can do for yourself is sit down and really utilize your time. Get to know yourself minus another person. Who are you when you look in the mirror? What do you want out of life, or out of a relationship? Do you fall back on religion or find solace in other practices? You can do the things you enjoy the most, and teach yourself to get used to a new normal. Going to the gym or burying yourself in schoolwork could be beneficial. You can do anything. Do not restrict yourself.

Being single doesn't necessarily mean that you're truly alone. Spend time with your family or friends. Lean on them when your Netflix nights get too lonely, especially when you're binging romantic comedies. We've all been there. One glass of wine over your limit, and you're on the verge of breaking into tears. Or, you've finished an entire box of Cheez-Its that belonged to your roommate after hearing the one song on your playlist that sends you into hysterics. They'll be there to pick up the pieces even when you think they won't. If they're honestly there for you, they'll be on the phone or at your doorstep at the drop of a hat. A shoulder to cry on with tissues at the ready could be your saving grace.

Being solitary may seem monotonous or boring, and too much "me time" isn't good for some people. You must take the time to evaluate what you need.

Sometimes it feels as if you'll never catch a break, that you'll sit alone on your couch eating cereal forever. Eventually, your time will come and you'll be ready to love again, or even for the first time. The one you've waited on will appear after all the worries, fears, and tears are run dry. It'll crash in a wave when you least expect it, but it will come nonetheless.

Everything happens for a reason, and what will be will be, so don't feel discouraged. Life has a funny way of working things out in the end.