When most people think of partying in college, they give it this negative connotation that it is this thing that only "bad" college kids do.

I personally think that is incorrect.

College partying, to me, is just something to do socially.

After a long week full of exams I like to get dressed up, take a bunch of pictures with my girlfriends and go out to any house that is throwing down, and I should not have to feel bad for that.

Lots of straight edge or abstinent people, however, do continue to label me bad for the choices I make on the weekends.

I am not saying all people who decide to live an abstinent or straight edge lifestyle are like this, but the few people I have met who do not partake in my weekend activities have a funny way of always bringing it up in conversation while acting condescending.

"I could never imagine going out like you do."

"That really wasn't a good decision to go out this weekend."

"How do you even have time to go out?"

"I am just going to stay in...you should try it some time."

Some people just have this idea in their head that since they do not go out they are somehow better than the people that do.

I am writing to tell these people that it is about time they get off their high horse.

Just because I decide to go out on weekends doesn't mean I work less than you do.

Just because I go out on weekends does not mean I don't have values.

Just because I go out on weekends does not mean I necessarily participate in drinking or smoking with others.

For me, partying is truly just a way to be more social. Going out and dancing is a stress relief. I work 20 hours a week on and off campus, I max out on credits and have a solid GPA.

No one should have to shame me for relaxing on my weekends the way I want.

I am not hating on people who dislike partying or do not go out. I like being a homebody sometimes too.

I respect those who decide to stay in on a Friday night and all I ask for is the same respect in return when I go out.

I just think there is a common misconception between these two ends of the spectrum.

There is a possible way to balance having a social life and academic/work life.

I do not expect to be praised for going out. I do not believe it is better to go out. With that being said, you should not be praised for staying in either.

The options of staying in or going out are equal and it should be treated as so.

At home, you can relax, be productive and be comfortable all you want.

Partying is a way to decompress after a long week. There is nothing inherently wrong with partying, although some people can make it seem that way.

To those who did not party this year you have no place to judge me. For those who did: party on.