Is It Ever Too Early To Talk College?

Is It Ever Too Early To Talk College?

a shy girl half raised her hand and asked “do you think everyone can go to college?” This broke my heart in two.

Recently I was given the opportunity to talk college with an intrigued group of young woman. During our conversation, amidst their many burning questions, a shy girl half raised her hand and asked “do you think everyone can go to college?” This broke my heart in two.

The sad reality is, many children are told they don’t have what it takes to succeed, or rather they can’t because they can’t afford to. Well, I simply won’t accept that. Think about where you are in your life, and how you got there. Was it a series of fortunate coincidence or did you have to work for it? Have you always desired success? What teacher or coach pressed the importance of self-discipline, and drive? For all of us, there is that one person that comes to mind. That one teacher, coach, parent, author, superhero, etc., that impacted us most. Whether directly through one-on-one influence, or indirectly through literature and hero films, there’s been someone special that made it known to you, that you were special.

Many people feel strongly one way or the other concerning the importance of college, and how early adolescence should begin to prepare. Is it ever too early to talk college? Typically, there are two sides to this question. There’s your “kids should be kids” side, and the “it’s never too early to think about college” side. Both, equally well argued, but I choose the argument that it is never too early to talk college, think college, and prepare for college. Studies have shown that early exposure to ideas of success, what it means, and what it will entail, translates to desire for success later in life.

Our teenage years are the most important years of our lives. It’s when we develop our core. Our core beliefs, admirations, and dreams. Every child should know that they can do whatever they put their mind to, and they don’t need anyone else’s help, nor permission, to get there. I think it’s hard today when thinking about college because other than it being extremely important to our self-growth, it’s also extremely challenging. It’s long, draining, and as we all know, expensive. But how many can say it isn’t worth it? I think today we give college a bad rep, when in fact we know it’s one of the most monumental milestones this generation has to offer.

Let’s talk more college. Tell our youth to reach for the stars. Bring out the books. Get organized. Have a desired profession, even if it won’t be the same in five years, five months, or even five minutes. Let them know that they can graduate from college, they can be a surgeon, or a veterinarian, or a top chef, or an astronaut, or an actor, or a musician, or Batman, doesn’t matter really, as long as they have the confidence to know there is endless possibility for any number of those options. That’s the beauty of America, the country of opportunity. We dream, we inspire, we conquer.

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9 Ways To Have Fun While NOT Partying On The Weekend In Bloomington

Parties can be fun, but you don't have to spend all of your weekends going to them. Here are 9 of my favorite ways to branch out!

I know what you are thinking: “What a lame article.” Everyone loves a good party, but sometimes it is good to branch out and try new things. Here is a list of my favorite things to do on the weekend while still staying out of trouble.

1. Mini Golf

Every time I’m in the mall I pass by this new glow-in-the-dark Mini Golf place. It looked pretty neat and it’s a great activity to do with your friends. Whether you are good at sports or not, you are guaranteed to have fun. I mean who could pass up mini golf? (Not to mention glow-in-the-dark mini golf??)

2. Anthony’s Pets

The classic go-to in Bloomington. Hit up Anthony’s Pets for a fun time with puppies. Nobody with a heart can resist puppy love. (They have other animals too!!)

3. Movie night

Great for a night in with your friends or if you want to switch things up and go to the movies, you can do that too! There are plenty of great movies out right now and coming up! Some of those include Black Panther, Jumanji, and The Greatest Showman.

4. Hiking & Staying in a Cabin

Some of my favorite nights are nights we have spent at my friend’s cabin. Hiking and staying in Brown County is an awesome activity to get into when there is not much happening around campus. Bring cards and your speaker and it’s bound to be fun.

5. Sober for a pair

Here’s an unusual idea. If you are involved in Greek Life on campus, offer to sober monitor for one of your house’s socials. You get the fun of going to the party, but don’t feel obligated to drink. It’s the best of both worlds when you are just not feeling it.

6. Support your favorite IU team

There are always games going on the weekends. Tickets are super cheap or admission is free for a lot of sports. Some of the best games are ones you get to go to with a bunch of your friends. Leaving your dorm or apartment is fun for a change of scenery, especially when so many people go to these games. Get out there and see what’s happening! I personally love the basketball games.

7. Escape Room

There is a new Escape Room experience in Bloomington called Locked Up. It is fun for all ages and great for when you have guests! Trying new things is really fun and this is a great bonding experience for people looking to take big groups. I did one in Indy, and it ends up being something you talk about all the time. Plus they are currently running a promo for Valentines Day! Use the code ‘Vday2018’ when you checkout.

8. The Comedy Attic

This is a great one for the older crowds. With different shows every weekend, it is so much fun to go and eat dinner with your friends while you get some good laughs in. People love the entertainment. They also have kid-friendly shows as well!

9. Bowling at the IMU

Bowling is an awesome activity for when your group just can’t decide on what to do. Everyone loves a good competition. It’s super cheap for students to go and there are other games to do once you are in!

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5 Problems You Have If You're A Super Messy Person

You might as well just embrace who you are.

Being a messy person comes with its struggles, laziness topping off the list.

It is especially difficult to keep tidy in college, where you're living on your own or with a roommate, and you don’t have your parents to tell you to go clean up your room or do chores. If you've ever left a trail of crumbs accidentally letting everyone you live with know where you've been, you understand that with great messiness comes great burden. Neat freaks always think that they have it the worst, but here are five problems that prove that being messy is no walk in the park either.

1. You never know where any of your things are.

The mess that you've created has no sense of structure. Nothing makes sense about where you've thrown your things other than that it was the closest place to put it. Outsiders cringe at the sight of your belongings spread out in the most confusing ways. Finding your remote or keys is the most difficult task in the world.

2. But on a more real level, you know exactly where everything is.

Cleaning up is the worst. Somehow, a messy person can manage to tell which clothes in a huge pile of combined clean and dirty have been worn just by a quick glance. There is a method to the madness, so when someone tries to move something you begin to panic. That deck of cards on your dresser packed in with all your makeup? Yeah, it's meant to be there. The sunglasses in the cup where you put all of your highlighters? It was intentionally thrown in there. That empty box that’s been there for two weeks? It's still out for a reason.

3. You feel bad for your roommate/parent/anyone who has to live with you.

Your roommate is constantly cleaning, vacuuming, taking out the trash and more to keep your shared space livable and tidy, so a small part of you feels horrible that you make it such a mess for them, because God knows you aren't going to be the one cleaning it up. Yet, you never cease to amaze yourself at how lazy you are when it comes to actually being motivated enough to clean things for yourself.

4. It's impossible to know where to even begin when cleaning.

Beginning to clean is a nightmare. Where to start? The desk looks messy, but so does the dresser. The bed isn't made yet, but there are clothes all over it. Too much is happening at once, so it's just better to leave it be altogether and take a nap instead. You thought about cleaning, and it's the thought that counts.

5. You always say you're going to change, but it never happens.

Actions speak louder than words, and even though this time you promised yourself that you're going to be a better roommate and actually clean up for yourself, you never will. Another New Year's resolution down the drain. Being messy is in your nature, and you might as well just embrace who you are instead of trying to be someone you're not.

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