I'm an introvert in nature; I've been wired that way. Being an introvert doesn't mean being anti-social, it only means that you find solace in solitude or small groups of people rather than in a crowd. Being around people for extended periods of time can become draining and sometimes we just need to re-charge our social battery by being alone or doing things for ourselves.

So, why did I decide to rush? Aren't sorority girls just super energetic and peppy? Isn't it just a bunch of parties and events? Aren't they all extroverts?

From that perspective, yes, it seems like an introvert's worst nightmare. But when you look at the over-arching picture and everything a sorority has to offer, the events and parties are just part of it.

Before looking into it, I had the idea that all sorority girls loved to party or all had a "woo-hoo!" personality. After talking to my mom, a few trusted adults, and current sorority members, I realized I had a false impression. Sororities are huge, which also means each sorority is diverse. Every sorority may have a reputation or something that identifies them (good or bad), but within that sorority, not everyone is the same. You can find your niche within the larger group because everyone is different.

Sororities are based around community. My mom still stays in touch with many of her sorority sisters. She describes it as a home away from home, an instant connection with like-minded people. I've heard some argue against Greek life saying they "don't want to pay for friends," but it isn't like that in the slightest. Yes, there are dues that must be paid, but it's not as if you're paying members of the sorority to hang out with you.

Outside of the social scene, there is an emphasis on education, leadership, and your individual future. There is a minimum GPA that must be upheld and programs to help you do so. Within each sorority, there are countless leadership opportunities which are perfect for character building and job applications. With such a large group of people, there are tremendous networking opportunities for your future. In this day and age, it's a lot about who you know.

Being in a sorority means being part of something that is bigger than yourself. There's fundraising and an emphasis on philanthropy events to help others. It's a great way to get involved, have fun, and serve the community at the same time.

Obviously, sororities aren't everyone's cup of tea and I'm not suggesting that you join if your heart isn't in it. But if you're an introvert like me or you're on the fence about whether or not rushing is for you, I hope this reaches you well.