Infertility and miscarriages are a fairly common thing among couples, so what happens when a loving couple cannot have a child, a family, or even another responsibility to love? This can take a toll on anyone...
Of course, men take it hard when they find out their wives, or even themselves are infertile, but most women take it much harder. It is common for society to see a woman being a hard working mother, running all the errands, and keeping up with the kids; when women cannot do what is expected of society, they can begin to feel worthless.
Not only is it hard knowing you cannot have children, but it's worse thinking you are going to and then getting that taken from you in the blink of an eye. So many people are scarred from having a miscarriage, and can you blame them?
Let me give you an example scenario: You are 18 weeks pregnant with your little bundle of joy and are going in for your doctor's appointment. Today is "the day" you finally get to find out if you're having a boy or girl, pink or blue, basketball or cheerleading. It all comes down to this, but where is the heartbeat?
"No, that cannot possibly be true, there's no way they cannot find the heartbeat I know there is one!"
Your mind is scrambling and your thoughts are everywhere. What happens now?
How is anyone supposed to handle something this traumatic? Is it even possible? Yes, but it takes a lot. When something like this happens it can leave the parents emotionally scarred for life, and those scars take time to heal.
There it is; that is the answer. It is much easier said than done, but when something like this happens to someone they need time to learn to deal with the pain, and that is what everyone around them needs to give them.