I'm Going Abroad And I'm Terrified

I'm Going Abroad And I'm Terrified

I just have a lot of questions

Okay terrified might be a bit of an overstatement.

Anyway, I'm going to Florence for a whole semester in January. I am over the moon with excitement about being in a new place but there are lots of uncertainty out there and I'm definitely someone who enjoys knowing exactly what is going to happen. I am scared that getting there on my own, without a travel buddy, will not work out the way I want.

Sure, I have traveled my whole life, but there is something about doing it completely solo that freaks me out just a little. I'm also scared that I won't make any friends, which again is totally irrational because I know that I totally will. I just have so many questions:

Will this experience be as fantastic as everyone says that it is? (answer: of course it will be).

How in the world am I going to be able to communicate when I get there not knowing any useful Italian?

Who the heck and I going to live with?

And more importantly, will we get along?

What is my apartment going to look like?

If I can't even navigate directions in America, how in the world am I going to do it in a foreign language?


What will everything be like when I get back home in May?

My fear is that my friends and I will have drifted and that it'll be hard to get back into the swing of things. Easy fix: stay in the loop with facetime and don't let you and your friends drift! What if I end up loving it so much over in Italy that I hate the idea of coming back to America? What will it be like to come home and not have fresh pasta and a plethora of gelato at my fingertips anymore?

I know that this experience is one that I will never forget and I should just let go of all of the anxiety that I'm having over things I can't control and the fears that are completely irrational (which is most of them). It's just hard to do when everything is new. I just need to move past it because come January, the gif below will be me #af

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I Asked 5 Europeans What They Think of Americans, And Oooh Boy

I asked 5 people in Europe what they thought of Americans and it was pretty funny.

Sometimes, I feel Americans don't think too much about how we are viewed by others. It is hard to name off bad traits about one's own country because in reality, who wants to do that?

I asked ten Europeans what they thought about Americans, to see if everyone really thought the stereotypes that are made about American people were true.

So in asking, "what do you think of Americans," these are the responses I got...

1. "Well, I was just curious, how many credit cards do you have...?" - Germany

A lot of European people think that our view of money and its importance is odd. I have noticed since being here, people do not work nearly the hours most people do in the U.S., money is not their only motive.

People here are not as concerned with what seems to be the American ideal of working harder, having more money and financial security and being able to purchase more materialistic goods.

2. "You guys have bigger appetizers than some of our meals." - Belgium

It's true, since being in Europe, I have not seen a to-go box, or have ever left a meal feeling so full that I need a nap. We could truly learn a thing or two from the portion control in Europe.

3. "Americans are way too loud." - Spain

I never thought about how loud Americans are, mainly because it is so normal to me. After getting used to speaking with my roommates who are all from Europe, and then meeting up with a group of Americans, I see how loud we all talk together and how many glares we get from across a restaurant.

4. "You all have the worst vocabulary I have ever heard." - Italy

I don't even have an argument for this one, people who speak English as their 3rd language truly have better vocab than most of us.

5. "You all smile way too much and get hurt when people don't reciprocate it." - Spain

It took me a few weeks to not get butthurt when people here don't smile upon eye contact but it isn't rude, but in America, a smile is almost just a polite gesture that means virtually nothing.

To sum it up, yes. People think these stereotypes are true.

They really do live under the assumption of so many stereotypes about us. It's not that they dislike Americans at all; they think we are all friendly and funny (not always in a good way, but hey I'll take it).

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10 Must-See Spring Break Destinations For The True Adventurer

For the True Adventurer

1. Catalina Islands, U.S.A.

This is the perfect spot for those looking to be surrounded by nature. From deep water diving to surfing, and hiking, Catalina has it all plus its right off the coast of Southern California so once you are done exploring you can go and explore L.A.

P.S. It’s where I’ll be spending some of my time this break.

2. Eugene, Oregon

You’ve probably never heard of this place, but it is such a beautiful town. If you’re not looking for the full out nature adventure that is Catalina I would consider going to Eugene. It’s a small town surrounded by beautiful landscapes that will have your Instagram popping for weeks.

3. Estes Park, Colorado

This is definitely for those who enjoy skiing and snowboarding. Those of you who like to be out on the slopes will find joy in Estes, and it isn’t as popular as some other areas in Colorado, so there will be fewer people. Lastly, who doesn’t love cuddling by the fireplace in a quaint little town

4. South Padre Island, Texas

There is a good mix of exploring nature and the party atmosphere of spring break on South Padre Island. Everything's bigger in Texas including spring break. The parties are wild and the sea around the island is even wilder.

5. Daytona Beach, Florida

For the ultimate partier who is still on a budget, Daytona Beach is the way to go. You are still getting to experience the spring break party lifestyle without the expenses of Miami.

6. Havana, Cuba

There is no telling how much longer we will be allowed into Cuba. Don’t miss the opportunity to visit such a colorful place. With its old-timey cars and streets filled with music, you feel almost transported back to a simpler time.

7. Montreal, Canada

Foodies this is the place to be. Montreal is home to some of the best restaurants in the world and also has a great food truck scene. With its mixture of French and Canadian culture, it gives you the experience of being in Europe without leaving the continent.

8. Bali, Indonesia

It isn’t the cheapest place to visit, but if you rent a small villa on the water and a motorbike you're good to go. College is stressful enjoy the chill vibes of the islands while lounging in your pool.

9. Ecuador

This is the place to be in South America, not only do they use the dollar but there is so much to do there. It has the Andes mountains, the Galapagos Islands, the Amazon rainforests, and lots of beaches for surfing.

10. Krakow, Poland

Visiting anywhere in Europe is not cheap, but the further east you go the cheaper it is. One of the best cities in eastern Europe is Krakow. It is filled with rich architecture and great food. The weather there is also very nice this time of year. If you're looking to be unique and go somewhere new and different I would highly recommend Krakow.

If you have a favorite destination for spring break please comment it down below. I’d also love to hear where everyone is going this year!

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