Only You Can Ignite Your Inner Happiness

Only You Can Ignite Your Inner Happiness

Happiness is a part of life that we all hold the key to.

Happiness seems like such a simple thing to have, especially when Walt Disney says that "Happiness is simply a state of mind." Well, if happiness really is such an easy thing to have then why is it so hard for people to find it? Why if it is so easy to be happy do people spend their lives searching for what gives them genuine happiness when the search doesn't need to happen at all?

Maybe the reason people have to spend their whole life searching for happiness is because of that fact right there: happiness isn't meant to be found, especially in only one thing. In fact, happiness isn't something that you suddenly discover as people seem to think because happiness is not a destination -- happiness is a life-long journey.

There are many things that mimic the feeling of happiness-- like buying a new car or new clothes-- but that excitement fades quickly because both the source of happiness and the excitement you feel isn't sustainable. Real, genuine happiness is like love, it is there to stay through everything that life throws your way and when it is all said and done, true happiness will leave you feeling as though you lived the life that you were given, well.

True happiness can be discovered at any point in life, and is, but what makes us happy changes as we grow emotionally, spiritually, and physically. Regardless of your age, true happiness can be felt when you take chances, do things that you never thought were possible and end up proving yourself wrong, and challenging yourself to do the things that really make you happy and feel alive even though society may say that it isn't "cool."

So, please, for your sake, stop searching for happiness. Stop hoping that it will magically appear at your doorstep. And, most importantly, stop wishing you could be as happy as the person next door. If you want to be happy, do as Walt Disney says and have a happy state of mind, challenge yourself, do something new, figure out exactly who you are meant to be and find people like you, and take advantage of every opportunity and an open door that is presented to you. Only then will inner happiness arrive. Everyone wants to look back on their life when they are 85 years old and know that they didn't just live but they lived the life that they were given, well.

Happiness is something that we as individual people have control over. Only we can make ourselves be truly happy and I think deep down inside, we all know how to make ourselves happy, we are just too scared to step out of our comfort zones and try. Imagine how much brighter your day, your week, and your year could be if only you had the strength right now to choose to be happy. Happiness is only one positive, personal choice away.

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I'm A Woman And You Can't Convince Me Breastfeeding In Public Is OK In 2019

Sorry, not sorry.


Lately, I have seen so many people going off on social media about how people shouldn't be upset with mothers breastfeeding in public. You know what? I disagree.

There's a huge difference between being modest while breastfeeding and just being straight up careless, trashy and disrespectful to those around you. Why don't you try popping out a boob without a baby attached to it and see how long it takes for you to get arrested for public indecency? Strange how that works, right?

So many people talking about it bring up the point of how we shouldn't "sexualize" breastfeeding and seeing a woman's breasts while doing so. Actually, all of these people are missing the point. It's not sexual, it's just purely immodest and disrespectful.

If you see a girl in a shirt cut too low, you call her a slut. If you see a celebrity post a nude photo, you call them immodest and a terrible role model. What makes you think that pulling out a breast in the middle of public is different, regardless of what you're doing with it?

If I'm eating in a restaurant, I would be disgusted if the person at the table next to me had their bare feet out while they were eating. It's just not appropriate. Neither is pulling out your breast for the entire general public to see.

Nobody asked you to put a blanket over your kid's head to feed them. Nobody asked you to go feed them in a dirty bathroom. But you don't need to basically be topless to feed your kid. Growing up, I watched my mom feed my younger siblings in public. She never shied away from it, but the way she did it was always tasteful and never drew attention. She would cover herself up while doing it. She would make sure that nothing inappropriate could be seen. She was lowkey about it.

Mindblowing, right? Wait, you can actually breastfeed in public and not have to show everyone what you're doing? What a revolutionary idea!

There is nothing wrong with feeding your baby. It's something you need to do, it's a part of life. But there is definitely something wrong with thinking it's fine to expose yourself to the entire world while doing it. Nobody wants to see it. Nobody cares if you're feeding your kid. Nobody cares if you're trying to make some sort of weird "feminist" statement by showing them your boobs.

Cover up. Be modest. Be mindful. Be respectful. Don't want to see my boobs? Good, I don't want to see yours either. Hard to believe, I know.

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9 Ways For College Girls To Destress

Sit back and relax sister.


We could all blow off a little steam no matter what age, but sometimes college just seems so fast paced and crowded we get lost in the stress and quickness of class on top of class and some students even hold jobs on top of that. So to all the super stressed gals out there, here are a few tips on how to take a few minutes out of your day to have some time to yourself!

1. Have a spa night

Buy some face masks and invite some friends over or even turn on your favorite movie and have a spa night to yourself!

2. Go on a drive

Turn on your favorite playlist and just drive around your town or even a mini road trip! Long drives really relax a lot of people.

3. Cry

Yes, I know that sounds like a joke but sometimes all you need is a good cry so turn on your sad music playlist (I know you have one, everyone has one) or your favorite tear jerking movie and let the tears flow girl!

4. Laugh

On a happier note... crying isn't for everyone! I, for one, am not an emotional person so humor is more my style. Go see a funny movie, hang out with your friends, or watch a comedy show! Anything to get you laughing!

5. Go to the gym

This one is good for you mentally and physically! A lot of people say the gym is their favorite place simply because its where they can blow off all of their steam. Try it! If you like it, it's a great new hobby to have!

6. Try a new hobby

Try something to get your mind off of whatever is stressing you out! It could be painting, writing, singing, or dancing! Whatever you want to give a shot at doing, go for it!

7. Go online shopping

I only recommend this one if you have money to spend. If you have no self control (like myself) then this one can get you into some trouble! Shop wisely people! But don't forget to treat your self every now and then!

8.Try out a new sport

A lot of colleges have intramural teams you can join of almost any sport you can think of! Try one out to take your mind off whatever is causing you stress!

9. Take a nap

I know this seems kind of self explanatory but a lot of times we forget that sleep is kind of a thing that we need to survive. So if your stress is causing you to lose sleep, or your staying up late working on classwork, then take a nap!

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