If You Let Her Go, You're A Fool

If You Let Her Go, You're A Fool

If she is full of life, she does not deserve to be half-loved.
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If you're a guy who's lucky enough to have a girl who would do anything for you, keep her around and treat her right. A strong woman with a good head on her shoulders, a plan for her future and a faithful mindset is not someone you should take for granted, ever. Today, an extremely large number of guys are so focused on a hookup or someone they can fool around with without any regard to their feelings. Unfortunately for the good girls that they end up hurting down the road, they halfheartedly wish for more and when they finally get that once in a lifetime girl of their dreams, they throw her away and keep the trash instead.

A girl who's worth it won't wait around more than a couple of times for you to make a decision on how you feel about her. If she really cares about you, she will make it clear. She might wait for you to figure things out in your life, but not in regards to your feelings for her. If she is full of life, she does not deserve to be half-loved. Treat her right or make room for someone who will. If she can take the good things and the extremely bad secrets about you and still somehow end up wanting you, keep her. The right girl isn't going to care about your past, she is going to care about your present and how you treat her during that present, so try your best to get it right.

Everyone makes mistakes, and if you make one with her, fix things. Fix things before it's too late and she settles for someone who doesn't make her feel the way you did only because he is willing to treat her with respect. Don't ignore her, don't use her. A girl worth loving may have walls around her heart, if she gives you the sledgehammer to knock them down, knock them down correctly, don't just leave her without an explanation as to why, you'll ruin her. If you aren't ready to give her the love she deserves from you, you need to tell her that. Don't just cut her off. The right girl will wait for you to work out your issues with your heart, but she won't wait if you don't tell her what's really going on in your mind.

If you let her go, you are a fool. This girl fell for you, she waited for you, she actually wanted you. She wanted you for everything you were and everything you weren't, she wanted the connection she feels with you and she wanted to be loved by you. Letting her go now would mean the end, because she would somehow move on from what she wanted most and try to find someone better. Tell her how you really feel, not what you think will keep her interested long enough until you decide when you're ready for her.

Let her in. Let her be the one to change you and grow together. Don't turn away the girl of a lifetime because you're scared. Love is supposed to be scary, falling is scary, but when the right person catches you, the end result is amazing.



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17 Empowering Bible Verses For Women

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We all have those days where we let the negative thoughts that we're "not good enough," "not pretty enough" or "not smart enough" invade our minds. It's easy to lose hope in these situations and to feel like it would be easier to just give up. However, the Bible reminds us that these things that we tell ourselves are not true and it gives us the affirmations that we need. Let these verses give you the power and motivation that you're lacking.

1. Proverbs 31:25

"She is clothed with strength and dignity and she laughs without fear of the future."

2. Psalm 46:5

"God is within her, she will not fall."

3. Luke 1:45

"Blessed is she who believed that the Lord would fulfill His promises to her."

4. Proverbs 31:17

"She is energetic and strong, a hard worker."

5. Psalm 28:7

"The Lord is my strength and my shield."

6. Proverbs 11:16

"A gracious woman gains respect, but ruthless men gain only wealth."

7. Joshua 1:9

"Be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid or discouraged. For the Lord your God is with you wherever you go."

8. Proverbs 31:30

"Charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last; but a woman who fears the Lord will be greatly praised."

9. 1 Corinthians 15:10

"By the grace of God, I am what I am."

10. Proverbs 31:26

"When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness."

11. Psalm 139:14

"I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made."

12. 1 Peter 3:3-4

"Don't be concerned about the outward beauty of fancy hairstyles, expensive jewelry, or beautiful clothes. You should clothe yourselves instead with the beauty that comes from within, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is so precious to God."

13. Colossians 2:10

"And in Christ you have been brought to fullness."

14. 2 Timothy 1:7

"For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline."

15. Jeremiah 29:11

"'For I know the plans I have for you,' says the Lord. 'They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.'"

16. Exodus 14:14

"The Lord himself will fight for you. Just stay calm."

17. Song of Songs 4:7

"You are altogether beautiful, my darling, beautiful in every way."

Next time you're feeling discouraged or weak, come back to these verses and use them to give you the strength and power that you need to conquer your battles.

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When Everyone Around You Is In a Relationship And You're Still Single

You might feel pressure to start a relationship, but reconsider...

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I'm not sure how or when exactly it happened, but it suddenly seems like everyone I know is in a relationship. While I'm happy for them, it can be kinda...depressing. Nauseating. Exhausting.

It builds slowly at first: the subtle side-eye you give your friend as they're on the phone with their S.O., the little pang of jealousy you get when your cousin posts their engagement pictures on Facebook, the way you feel when your Snapchat Stories are full of people on cute dinner dates.

Suddenly, it's a Thursday afternoon and you just snapped over an Instagram post of your friend and his boyfriend on their anniversary. We've all been there. I may or may not be there currently.

The worst advice you can get when you're feeling down about not having an S.O. is "Don't worry! You'll find someone!"(Especially when it's coming from someone in a happy relationship).

I'm here to give you the actual advice that you (and I) need to hear. You do not need a relationship to be happy, satisfied, or whole.

Here's the truth: you're gonna be just fine without a relationship. You are young. You are educated. You are ambitious and have your whole future ahead of you.

You are a complete person on your own who does not need another person to validate you or make your life worth enjoying. I'm not saying a relationship can't be satisfying and fun. I am saying that being in a relationship is not the end all, be all of happiness.

If you are spending your time waiting for a relationship and looking for it in every person you meet, you can end up missing out on so much of your life. Instead of being jealous of every couple around you and being bitter that you can't seem to find the "right person," try figuring out how to enjoy spending time as an individual.

You will have more time to devote to exploring new interests, developing new skills, and meeting new people. Your social, emotional, and mental wellbeing will become priorities.

Plus, just because you aren't in a relationship or looking for a relationship, that doesn't mean you won't have romantic/sexual experiences. You can still go on dates and develop relationships with people you are attracted to without the pressure to turn it into a serious relationship. Once you remove that expectation from your mind, you might even find it easier to meet, talk to, and connect with people.

When you stop focusing all your energy and hopes onto being in a romantic relationship, you open the door to new experiences, opportunities, and people. Most importantly, you are able to refocus and recenter your life around growth as an individual, which will lead to a healthier and more solid basis for any future relationships.

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