Can the word perfect be thrown out of the English dictionary? I hate the word perfect because, in reality, striving for perfection will always end in disappointment. I especially hate the word when used in the context of a romantic relationship. A healthier approach is to maintain an open line of communication to ensure that both individuals in the relationship feel that their needs are being met. A relationship is not just all about riding off into the sunset or living happily ever after. It is the process of finding the person who makes you feel as though you are a better version of yourself with them.
You cannot go into it expecting to have everything immediately. Your heart will lead you to the right person but at the end of the day, all relationships take growth and effort. You should not be expected to change who you are as a person and give up your individuality, but you learn how to be better people together.
Perfect is a social construct. Only you can decide the path you are meant to walk along. That is not to say that you can't ask for the advice of family members and friends along the way but at the end of the day, only you can be the one to decide.