I Feel Bad For Celebrities

I Feel Bad For Celebrities

No one ever leaves them alone.

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Celebrities are viewed as the almighty, but make one mistake and the entire world is against them.

Honestly, although they live a wealthy life, it by no means they live an easy one.

They are constantly followed around. Every detail of their lives are public. They can't even go to the bathroom or have a bad wardrobe day, without the whole world knowing about it.

People always talk about them because well...they are the news. What happens to them is consistently published and talked about.

Think about every time you have had a conversation with someone about a celebrity and were judging them on things that are completely human.

One thing I truly hate, is having to listen to others talk about what happened with this celebrity who broke up with this person, another one that had an affair, and another one that cursed at the paparazzi. The only difference, is not that they are doing things that are considered mistakes, but that it is public knowledge.

It is so hard to live that down and fix your life or just your reputation after that.

They are only human.

It's so easy to put someone else down, together. Why? Misery loves company and apparently so does hate.

I don't understand why people are so concerned with the lives of others in general. More specifically, why are they obsessed with the lives of celebrities?

I mean, don't get me wrong. I LOVE and admire a handful of them, but I am not going to judge their lives and base that on what other people are discussing. They don't know them.

You can say, oh wow that one is crazy or wild. But, an hour conversation about a family tree and who did this and who did that, is just too much.

Talk about your own life.

That's all.

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"Cut someone out of your life if they negatively impact your mental health."

"You need to cut off friends, family, anyone that is bad for you and your future."

"You will be so much better off once _____ is gone from your life."

At this point in your life, you've probably cut off one or more people who you believed weren't good for you. You were prioritizing yourself, and that meant letting go of someone, regardless of the memories, bond, and love that you had for them. It was probably difficult, but somewhere down the line, you knew that you did what was best for you. And you stood by that decision.

But how many times have you been the problem?

How many times have you sat down and took the time to analyze a situation, only to come to the conclusion that YOU'RE the one that's messing up? And that if you changed x, y, and z, you could save or help your relationship with your friend, family member, or significant other.

Probably not very often.

It's so much easier to pin a problem on someone else than it is to look deep within yourself and take responsibility for the things that you've done. But that's all part of growing up. At some point, I hope you realize that you weren't so perfect either, after all. And when you do, this is what I want you to think about:

We all go through different phases of our lives, and it's okay to understand and acknowledge that this phase doesn't represent the best version of yourself. Character development isn't a strict upward slope, where you start off being a shitty, underdeveloped, immature person, but then progress into being an angel. There are going to be ups and downs. There are going to be moments where you're really disappointed in yourself, and can't believe that you let yourself slip up to that degree. We all have flaws, we all make mistakes. But also all have so much potential.

As long as you're willing to put in the effort to change (because everyone around you deserves that), then you're on the right track. And I'm proud of you for having the emotional maturity to self reflect and be better. That's the first step.

And the next step is going to involve putting everything you're saying into practice. I can't promise you that it's going to be easy. And I can't promise you that you're going to drastically permanently change overnight. If I did, I would be lying. But what I can promise you is that everything you're going to do will be worth it in the long run. I hope that's enough of a reason to dig deep for a new you.

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