I Am A Feminist

I Am A Feminist

No, I don't burn my bras or hate men.


Feminism is so widely misconstrued and hated, but why? From the moment I knew what feminism was, I started calling myself a feminist.

I learned that feminism had been fighting for me since I was born and long before that.

Feminism fights for EVERYONE'S rights. Equal pay, equal opportunity, right to your body, and so much more. Feminism advocates for men who have been raped, even if the majority of the male community says "Dude, how could YOU be raped?" Feminism fights for girl's safety and right to exist. Without feminism, women wouldn't be allowed to vote. Without feminism, women wouldn't be allowed to have safe abortions. I am sick and tired of the hatred feminists get. Feminists do not hate men. They hate the patriarchy and system that put them second and last in every situation possible for thousands of years. Feminism wants me to have the same chance of getting a job that I am qualified for as a man would. Feminism wants me to live worry-free wearing the clothes I want to wear. Feminism wants to keep me safe and tear down all walls put in my way simply because I am a woman.

Since so many people don't understand the impact of feminism, I decided to ask women and men at James Madison University, The University of Virginia, and The College of William and Mary what they think feminism is and what feminism means to them.

This is what they had to say:

"I think that feminism is just about bringing equality for women, that women shouldn't be treated like an object, that they shouldn't have fewer rights than a man should." -KL, JMU Class of 2022

"To me, feminism is simply the act of supporting the equality of all women and men despite the social constructs that have been put in place over the years. Everyone should be able to express who they are without fear of judgment or exclusion. Feminism has become such a dirty word and has been manipulated in ways that portray someone who calls themselves a feminist as a self-righteous man hater and as someone who puts women over everyone else in society when that simply is not the case. In order for there to be equality for everyone, the true idea of feminism needs to first be understood." -JP, W&M; Class of 2022

"It's about being equal, it's a really positive thing. People have the wrong interpretation of what it actually is." -CB, UVA Class of 2022

"I believe that feminism is about… men have always had rights, telling women what to do with their body. Feminism is not saying that men are not important. For me, feminism is saying that we have importance besides being sex objects and cooks. We have our own lives and careers. I feel like people think feminists hate when guys hold the door open for them, but that's not right. Uber feminists (not real feminists) are what is portrayed. It's the same thing with Black Lives Matter and the Me Too movement. Any movement that threatens the heterosexual, white patriarchy is demonized." -AA, UVA Class of 2022

"I would think that feminism has a generally negative stigma, which I really don't understand. If I were to say one of my parents were a doctor, many people would think it's my dad. But it's my mom. I think she embodies feminism. She breaks social construct in what is perceived as a man's role. Whenever I think of a doctor now, I immediately think it's a woman. Feminism is being unafraid to break the social construct and change perspectives." -MH, UVA Class of 2022

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12 Things Young Republicans Are Tired Of Hearing

A dozen myths about conservatism and what the real deal is.


As a college student, I know a lot of people my age consider themselves very liberal. It's a rare occasion when you meet another conservative on campus. Being a young Republican, there are several negative assumptions that come along with that.

Here is a list of 12 things we're all tired of hearing.

1. "You're only a Republican because your parents are."

Yes, my parents are both Republican and that's where my morals and beliefs were first taught, but I am my own person. I have done my own research and decided that my views side with the Republican Party. There are several things that even my parents and I disagree on. I wouldn't choose to be a Democrat just so I could be different.

2. "I bet you support Trump."

While many Republicans my age are supporting Trump, that doesn't mean we all are. We're entitled to our personal opinions and assuming we're all the same is incorrect. Just because you are a Republican doesn't mean you automatically support Trump.

3. "You're racist, sexist, etc."

This couldn't be farther from the truth. There are so many Republicans that come from unique racial and cultural backgrounds, both genders included. Take Marco Rubio, Condoleezza Rice, Ben Carson, and Bobby Jindal. These are just a few of the many, many examples.

4. "You're uneducated about the issues."

Just because someone has a different opinion than you doesn't mean they're wrong or uninformed.

5. "You're only a Republican because you're rich."

I am by no means rich. Did my parents have enough money to support their family? Yes, and I'm very blessed for that. However, they didn't pay for everything. As for college, I worked my butt off to get scholarships and opportunities to succeed. I was taught at a very young age that money requires work and things aren't just handed to you. That's exactly the reason why I strongly support capitalism.

6. "Why don't you want free college?"

NOTHING IS FREE. Would free college be awesome? Absolutely! However, I do not believe it's fair to tax working people to pay for it. If you want something, work for it.

7. "The GOP is a bunch of old, white men."

This is so untrue. I mean take a look at all the well-known conservatives in America. Lauren Conrad, Britney Spears, Carrie Underwood, Carly Fiorina, Condoleezza Rice, Megyn Kelly, Elizabeth Hasselbeck, and so many more. Point proven.

8. "You're close-minded."

This is the most common and most annoying. Conservative does not equal close-minded. I love hearing about different ideas and opinions.

9. "You hate immigrants."

I personally feel like our immigration system is broken and needs to be changed so it's more accessible to become an American citizen. However, I don't believe those here illegally should receive taxpayer benefits. I'm all for immigration as long as it's done legally.

10. "You don't support women's rights."

Usually, this is brought up when talking about abortion. What about the rights of the unborn child? It's not just about one person's rights at that point.

11. "You should just #FeelTheBern."

#NO. I do not support socialism.

12. "You only hear the Fox News version."

Fox News is my favorite choice of news programs, but I also enjoy hearing the different views on CNN, NBC, Huffington Post, etc.

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21 Tweets About Anti-Vax Children That Will Make Parents Get Their Kids Vaccinated ASAP

Vaccinate your kids. Period.


I have compiled 21 tweets about anti-vaccination parents and their children that did not only make me laugh, but made me further enforce my belief that parents need to vaccinate their kids.

These tweets are pretty dark, to be honest, but once you think about the situation at hand, sometimes it is best to approach it in a funny way so you can get your point across.

You have been warned.

These tweets may be funny, but the situation is not funny. Do your research and help people around you not get sick by vaccinating your kids.






















(and probably the most important tweet of all).

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