How My Humbleness Is Mistaken For Ungratefulness

How My Humbleness Is Mistaken For Ungratefulness

I will always be grateful for each opportunity I have been given

“Never boast what you have, because someone always has it worse off than you”

As Christmastime rolls around, and this year is slowly ending I have taken the time to reflect on my year and the many things that have shaped me into the person I am today. Spending time in college and opening myself up to new experiences has enabled me to new opportunities and new accomplishments. Many of these accomplishments no matter how big or small, I take with great appreciation. However, some see my humble gratitude to be ungrateful.

From a very young age my parents informed me of my many blessings. Anytime in which I received something, they continuously reminded me to never boast what I have, because there was someone out there who wasn’t not able to receive such blessings as me. As a child, I took these comments to heart and throughout my life I remembered to be grateful for the things God has allowed me to have, and have never showcased them for the world to see.

This has brought about both good and bad consequences. Its attributes allow me to be much more grateful and appreciative of what I have. I always take the time to thank God for my accomplishments, and providing me with the blessings he has given me. While doing so, I always consider others; For me, it’s important to consider how important your accomplishments are and how others may not have the chance to achieve those accomplishments, due to their circumstances.

However, not informing others of my accomplishments has brought upon different reactions. Keeping my achievement in a discrete manor has led people to ask “Why are you not more excited?”

My answer would be this: I don’t tend to dwell on the excitement that comes with achieving a major event in my life. Honestly, that would be the main reason many confuse my humbleness with ungratefulness. As a person, I don’t like very much attention; but, that’s what makes me different than others. Some like to make their accomplishments known to the world. They like to make note of their achievements and give others a chance to notice their accomplishments. I do not shame them or look down upon them for doing so. However, I choose to keep many of my achievements to myself.

I appreciate my opporunities and blessings but, I receive them with as much gratitude there is in my heart and continue with my life. There’s more to an achievement besides the excitement attached to it. I take my achievements and use it for what they are worth. The achievement has more substance than simply just publicizing it for the whole world to take notice of you.

Once I have received my accomplishment, I progress. I take the accomplishment and strive for more. There’s more I can do with this achievement than just flaunt it for the whole world to take notice of me. have I can take my accomplishment and use it to the best of my ability to better myself and others.

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To The Girl Struggling With Her Body Image

It's not about the size of your jeans, but the size of your heart, soul, and spirit.


To the girl struggling with her body image,

You are more than the number on the scale. You are more than the number on your jeans and dresses. You are way more than the number of pounds you've gained or lost in whatever amount of time.

Weight is defined as the quantity of matter contained by a body or object. Weight does not define your self-worth, ambition or potential.

So many girls strive for validation through the various numbers associated with body image and it's really so sad seeing such beautiful, incredible women become discouraged over a few numbers that don't measure anything of true significance.

Yes, it is important to live a healthy lifestyle. Yes, it is important to take care of yourself. However, taking care of yourself includes your mental health as well. Neglecting either your mental or physical health will inflict problems on the other. It's very easy to get caught up in the idea that you're too heavy or too thin, which results in you possibly mistreating your body in some way.

Your body is your special, beautiful temple. It harbors all of your thoughts, feelings, characteristics, and ideas. Without it, you wouldn't be you. If you so wish to change it in a healthy way, then, by all means, go ahead. With that being said, don't make changes to impress or please someone else. You are the only person who is in charge of your body. No one else has the right to tell you whether or not your body is good enough. If you don't satisfy their standards, then you don't need that sort of negative influence in your life. That sort of manipulation and control is extremely unhealthy in its own regard.

Do not hold back on things you love or want to do because of how you interpret your body. You are enough. You are more than enough. You are more than your exterior. You are your inner being, your spirit. A smile and confidence are the most beautiful things you can wear.

It's not about the size of your jeans. It's about the size of your mind and heart. Embrace your body, observe and adore every curve, bone and stretch mark. Wear what makes you feel happy and comfortable in your own skin. Do your hair and makeup (or don't do either) to your heart's desire. Wear the crop top you've been eyeing up in that store window. Want a bikini body? Put a bikini on your body, simple.

So, as hard as it may seem sometimes, understand that the number on the scale doesn't measure the amount or significance of your contributions to this world. Just because that dress doesn't fit you like you had hoped doesn't mean that you're any less of a person.

Love your body, and your body will love you right back.

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