When I started working with kids I didn't think it would impact me as much as it did, but I'm forever thankful for the opportunity I was given.

I was the oldest child in my immediate family which automatically called for babysitter duty. Which I of course didn't mind. It obviously taught me a lot of responsibility and "things" about life. It wasn't until I started working with my job that I learned a lot more. Some of the things I'm about to point out are just the beginning of my eye-opening experience.

1. Patience is essential.

Granted I've always had fairly good patience, but being around kids so often I gained a little more. Obviously kids don't have the longest attention span and there's nothing wrong with that. I know I definitely don't and I'm not a child. You just have to take a deep breathe and nicely get them back on track.

2. Not everyone raises their kids the same.

I'm sure it's not common you meet people who were raised the same way as you. It's going to be clear as day that not everyone has the same parenting style when you work with kids. Some parents care too much and some too little. And honestly, there's not a single thing you can do about that and sometimes it really freaking sucks but you have to let it go and continue on with your job.

3. Stay positive.

The minute your mood goes south is the minute that things start to go sideways. I've learned that kids have a tendency to notice when you're in a bad mood. It will quickly affect them because they feed of the energy you're providing. Kids are quick-witted but you have to be quicker than them and you most definitely cannot take your anger out on them.

4. RESPECT.

It goes both ways in every aspect of life. There's no questions to be asked. If you show respect, you'll get it back. Even if you don't, kill them with kindness. They'll come around. Kids pick up on your habits and if constantly lack respect, they'll start to think it's okay.

5. Have fun.

You work with kids you can't be serious all the time. There's no way you applied for the job and thought you wouldn't be able to have fun. So cheer up butter cup. Make friends with your coworkers, make kids laugh, have a little fun. It'll make the shift go a lot quicker, I promise.

I promise working with kids will probably stress you out and make me you want to scream but keep your cool and smile. You'll thank yourself for the experience later on.