How To Properly Respond To Tragedies
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How To Properly Respond To Tragedies

If you're scared to look at the news nowadays, this is for you.

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How To Properly Respond To Tragedies
Jilbert Ebrahimi

The past few years in the world have seemed more tumultuous than usual. It seems that every day more and more falls apart, that between corruption, terrorism, economic struggles, violence, freak accidents and so many more occurrences, it is shocking that life can still go on.

Sometimes the media and social media response to these events can be overwhelming, and it is often hard for us as individuals to know how to respond publicly, and within ourselves. While we like to think that tragedy will steer clear of us and eventually, the world will be peaceful, in the meantime it is best to look at ways to respond and process, so that we may be prepared for the possible next time.

Public Response

DON’T Share Graphic Content

When the Facebook Live shooting in Cleveland this past year went viral, it was impossible to scroll through social media without seeing the footage. Most people captioned it with something calling out the shooter, but continued to post the content over and over. Remember that whenever a horrible atrocity like that shooting happens, those are real people.

They have families and people who care about them, and reposting graphic content is disrespectful and potentially damaging to them. Also, be considerate to other people viewing your profile who may not want to see the footage. Overall, if you feel the content could make others uneasy, the best bet is to just not post.

DON’T Make The Event About You

Unless you are directly involved or someone you know is involved, think before you post your personal connection to an event. Too often during emergencies are there posts saying things like “One time I visited (insert place) and it was just (insert adjective), imagine if we would have been there now," that block out the posts of people who were affected.

Remember again that real people are involved, and connecting yourself to a tragedy when your bond is flimsy comes across as rude. Do share your thoughts on the event, as it can be helpful to process with others, or post to hashtags in support, but don’t make yourself the focus.

Personal Response

Talk it Out

Find people who will be willing to talk with you about the state of the world and the disasters that seem to surround us. I personally get extremely anxious when the news is looking bleak, and the best solution to lower those anxious feelings is to talk to friends about it. Don’t let your feelings bottle up inside, and don’t put too much pressure on yourself to process alone.

Take the Next Step

If you feel strongly about stopping an atrocity from happening again, put some of your time and/or money into organizations that provide support or prevention in those situations. Give blood after an accident, write to your local congressional representative, or donate money to disaster relief. Tweeting out support is one thing, but if you feel called to action please do answer the call and help to make the world a better place.

Don’t be blindsided the next time a disaster strikes. Know how to respond helpfully and how to process the event, and keep working to make the world safer for all.


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